Family is more important or friends?
@PrettyButterfly (19)
India
November 26, 2008 2:05pm CST
I know that for some people its like asking you like your left eye or right. But in general, whats more important to you, family or friends? If you had a situation where you could choose only one out of family and friends, what would you choose?
Pretty Butterfly
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@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
hmm let`s say i am in a boat and somehow both my child and best friend fell in the water and none knows how to swim. Of course, I am going to save my child first. Yes my friends are important to me but I can`t give up my family. If a woman has a husband and her children, the choice is easy. Unless her husband is abusive and her children don`t give a crap about her.
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@PrettyButterfly (19)
• India
26 Nov 08
Yeh, if a woman has a loving husband and child, the choice is definitely easy.
Thanks for your response ladysakurax!
@kassdaw (591)
• United States
26 Nov 08
In my life I have to say I would choice friends. My family is so screwed up the ones I'm close to I call them my friends not my family. So it works for me. In all honesty I consider my family to be 2 of my sisters, mom, dad, my son and my boyfriend and his two kids. Everyone else in my biological are by marriage family are just relatives. Yes that does include my 4 brothers and the other 5 Sisters. It's just the way I like to define my family. Happy Thanksgiving
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@PrettyButterfly (19)
• India
26 Nov 08
Thanks for your response kassdaw!
Thanks & Happy Thanksgiving to you too:)
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
30 Nov 08
Hello Pretty Butterfly 8 ,
I think you can have a friend who is closes to you than family or you can look at them as family . My bestfriend and me are super close and she means more to me than some memembers in my family . Not my parent or brother , but some aunts and uncles ya know . You should not have to choice . Just be
@hildas (3031)
•
26 Nov 08
Well they say we can choose our friends, but cannot choose our family, but I think family is very important as they will always be there for us.
If I have to answer that question it would always be family for me, but I am lucky to have a really good one and most of my friends are my family.
@PrettyButterfly (19)
• India
26 Nov 08
Thanks for your response hildas! I totally agree with you said.
@ShortyAkbar (384)
• United States
26 Nov 08
My family is way more important. You have your whole life to make friends and they come and go, but your family is forever.
@mchairston (107)
• United States
26 Nov 08
from day to day interactions... friends are more important... however when you get down to it family will ride for you.. and maybe even die for you. the old saying is tru.. blood is thicker than water.
@PrettyButterfly (19)
• India
26 Nov 08
hmmm...so, our blood is thicker than water LOL!
Thanks for your response mchairston!