When has a partner gone too far and the relationship cannot be reconsiled?

when a partner becomes a stalker, following the x around everywhere, calling non stop showing up at the house invited etc.

For me it is is irreconcilable if my husband cheated on me, hit me, or makes me choose from family and friends and just him.

I think once a person cheats on someone, it should be overwith. I think should also be stopped if it turns abusive too.

It depends. Everyone has their limit of what they will put up with in a relationship. For me, I always told me husband that he could make me mad a million times but if he ever cheated on me that would be the end of it. I don't care what the situation. Once that trust is broken with me it can't be earned back. I would never feel safe with him again after that.

In my opinion I think when a person has gone to far is either when they cheat on me. Like I think I at least deserve the decency to know that they don't want to be with me any more. That is something that cannot be reconsiled with on me. Also if he was abusive in the relationship, that is something that I could not reconsile with either. I couldn't deal with no man hitting on me.