so many friends pregnant before getting married,it shocks me
By luludavie
@luludavie (70)
China
November 27, 2008 3:50am CST
around me,the tenth friend pregnant before getting marry, i suspect that is it popular in our world now...What do you think about??
i think if they get married at last, pergnanting is not a bad thing, if they don't, how about the baby? abortion,yeah, it s easy,but i still think it s not responsible for herself who is a unmarried mom, maybe im too conservative.
1 response
@bobbyjoe143 (1287)
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27 Nov 08
I am an unmarried mother, and in fact marriage is the last thing on my mind, it is not something that I have ever been bothered about…
You don’t have to be married to become a parent, in no way is it medically impossible to get pregnant without considering marriage.
What makes you think that marriage is an important part of being good parents? I have known a few married couples who are not happy, but only stay together for the sake of their children, only to find their children are extremely unhappy due to all the fighting that goes on.
Being married has little to nothing to do with having kids.
@luludavie (70)
• China
27 Nov 08
i dont think marriage is important to being good parents.i worried that if the guy dont love her,and leave her one day,and the pregnant is just a suddenness....it s a very sad thing to an unmarried mother...of couse,i hope they can come together in the whole life.
