Will you marry someone who had a baby with you or not?
By Valadynx123
@Valadynx123 (278)
Philippines
November 27, 2008 4:44am CST
Most people marry if they had a baby together but some do not marry each other. I think if I had a baby with someone, I think I will marry if I have financial support, love the girl and is ready to marry as a grown up person or i may not marry the girl at all and I just had a baby with her just because I'm not ready to marry. What about you?
2 responses
@ArmyBride309 (66)
• United States
29 Nov 08
I would not marry a man just because I was carrying his child. To me, getting married just because you are preggers is not a good reason. Rarely do those marriages work out and I don't want to wind up in that type of situation. If I wound up getting pregnant by a man that I was with and knew I was going to marry him then yes, I would marry him after finding out I was pregnant. For instance, we got engaged this past Feb (2008)... and are getting married this March. If I found out I was pregnant last December (2007) I would have married him shortly after finding out because I knew already that he was who I wanted to marry and spend my life with, but had it been just a hook up, or a casual relationship, no I would not have married him upon finding out I was pregnant. On down the road, after the baby was born, etc... maybe if the relationship continued to work and I knew I was supposed to be with him then yes but not upon finding out...
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
that depends.in marrying,i won't probably base my decisions on that.just because i had a baby with someone doesn't mean that i have to marry that person.but i can say that the chances of getting married to someone whom you had a baby with are pretty high.but then again,people change depending on the situations they face everyday so i wouldn't rely on that aspect entirely.
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