trust, sincerity, and love

Philippines
November 27, 2008 5:14am CST
If your ex-boyfriend who cheated on you asked for your forgiveness and told you that he wants you back? will you forgive him? are you going to give him another chance? Do you believe that sometimes cheating has valid reason?
6 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
Well for me I wont go back to her for reasons that she already knows what is bad and good and she already hurt me once. If I go back to her and repeated the same mistakes it's me who is stupid. Especially when I love her so much and fulling around that proves that she didn't ever think of me at all. It's too hard to earn my trust again, and believing her. I'll just have doubts all the time and that will be unfair fore both of us. Have a nice day to you1
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
yeah I agree with you. Having back the person who hurt you is like giving him the chance to hurt you again and again.
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
if you love that person, then why not give a chance.. not unless you don't have the option to choose.. think twice. be fix to all your decision.. learn how to balance with your heart and brain.
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
My boyfriend cheated on me... i forgave him and gave him the chance to prove his love to me... i dont believe that there is a valid reason in cheating... but... if you really love the person, there is... crazy huh? hehehe... the reason why i forgave him, gave him the chance to prove his love for me is the love i had for him. I love him very much... We've been together for almost 3 years now, and i discovered that he cheated on me. I confronted him, he explained everything, even if there's still doubt in my mind, i still forgave him... I believe that all of us are entitled to be given a chance to prove our selves... we're just human, very possible to commit mistakes so thats the reason why i forgave him. sometimes, we do things we think that will do good and protect to the person we really love, without realizing that in the end, it will hurt them... thats what i told him... but if he do it again and again, then its good to dump him coz he not really good for you or for any other girl... lets not be greedy of giving another person especially the person we love coz we might regret it in the end...
@23uday (2997)
• India
27 Nov 08
hi For any relation,trust,sincerity and love go hand in hand.if the love for the person is true ,then there is no chance of cheating.love increases as the days pass on.once when a person has cheated,then its very hard to trust and have faith in them.but once a cheater is always a cheater. but if love is true,and has committed mistakes,then they can be a given chance.but if they repeat it again,then just throw them away from the life. "life is beautiful" bye!!!!
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
4 Dec 08
i dont believe there is valid reasons for cheating .i think if you are not happy you need to get out before these things happen.it takes a real good person to forgive he is lucky to have you i hope he tells you this every day.
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
If ever this happens to me, I don't think I would still accept him. Maybe I could forgive, but being together again would be a bad idea. I could bear other mistakes or misunderstandings but not cheating. And in my own opinion, as far as I know, cheating is the only reason for break up (aside from abuse or any crime, of course). And cheating will never have a valid reason.. The mere fact that he was with another woman is an obvious act that he's not satisfied with me. And maybe he's just playing or something... Hope this won't happen to me.