Break up can cause death?
By lovelyvelle
@lovelyvelle (639)
November 27, 2008 9:30am CST
How would you handle this or what are you going to do. If a person you love and you knew he/she loves you too, but there were things which made your relationship very complicated and you decided a break up even how hard it was for you. And he/she didn't accept or agree with your decision to end up the relationship, but still you told him/her, "it's over ".
On that very moment, he/she ended his/her life (took a suicide). You have seen him/her on your very eyes how he/she killed himself. And his last words were, " I love you and I can never leave without you, goodbye" and he's dead. What do you think or how would you feel if you were in this situation? What are you going to do?
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7 responses
@hildas (3031)
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27 Nov 08
I think I would feel really bad about it all. After all he was still a friend to me. I do not think I would blame myself, though this sounds cruel. It would be my fault to some degree but I would not of wanted him to kill himself. It was his fault and it is awful. It would play on my mind.
Thats a tough one lovelyvelle. Sometimes we say things, but if it really happened we might do another thing.
@lovelyvelle (639)
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27 Nov 08
Yes, very tough! Even while I was typing to post it in here my heart was beating rapidly fast. It was like I felt the hurt under my flesh down to my very bones, and I just couldn't it express in words. (broken hear?)I was about to change my mind not to post it, but I was thinking oh I must, because I want to know and hear what would people think and do about this kind of situation.
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@ladybug24 (18)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
that would be so tragic! i will never let that happen to me and my lover. (and i don't think my bf have that mentality.) coz if that happens, it will definitely be my most traumatic experience. maybe i'll lose my sanity. i will be killed by guilt and haunted by my conscience for all my life.
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@lovelyvelle (639)
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29 Nov 08
Thanks, I agree with you wholeheartedly! So sad, that there are people who have this kind of mentality, they don't realise that there's more than that to live in this world. They are the kind of people that are thinking that losing someone they love is the end of the world, even though it's not true they had to let themselves rely and believe about this false facts that if they will lose somebody they better end their own life as well. Very sad!
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
Well sad to say it really happens and too bad some people won't really take no for an answer. Too bad they don't realize that if romantic love ends that shouldn't mean life should end because in reality there are a lot more people who loves them.
@karamellized (680)
• Philippines
26 Dec 08
You can not stay in a relationship just because the other person is like threatening to kill him or herself. Eventually s/he will feel that there is no love already and it is pretty much painful than you think.
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@rebecca7783 (123)
• India
28 Nov 08
well it can do.. but only at times. it depends how emotional you are.. you are are really emotional. i bet you will end up dying.. then again there are people who knows how to control their emotions.. and i think they are real winners in life..!!
@piya84 (2580)
• India
26 Dec 08
i think so i will feel bad about it .But stil i wont balme on myself for that.I have seen few such a cases .I think so its due to very weak mind.If you know the person with whom you are involved is very weak try to break up on good terms.so he wont get heart much.
@NiceCezle (57)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
that's tragic... i can't tell what will be my reaction unless im on that situation... but you cannot blame yourself if ever that happened coz atleast your just being honest to yourself and brave enough to end a relationship that you know will not work the way you both wanted it to be...
