is it a good thing to have your girlfriend move in with you to see how things go

My husband and I live together for several years before we married. It's going to be an adjustment at first because your girlfriend will be moving into your turf...your space...so you have to do a few things to make her feel welcome and at home. Make sure she has some drawers in the bedroom for her clothes and some space in the closet that is set aside for her. Make sure she knows that she can bring anything that she wants to bring with her. Avoid pulling a "power play" if you have a disagreement about something just because it's your place...that will make her feel like a visitor. Good luck and I hope you have a happy festive period.

Yes I think its a terffic idea especially if you are serious about getting married. Because you dont know how things could be if you have to spend all day with her and that could make or break relationships. It could make you guys stronger as a couple or you can get really annoyed at eachother and break up which I know has happend to a lot of people before.

I think it's best to get to know her family and friends first. Moving in together is like a marriage. If her family and friends don't like you or the idea of your living together they could put a wedge between you two. It could be a disaster. Take your time. Really get to know each other's likes and dislikes. Does she like your family? Does she like pets and you don't? Decide who will do the cooking and who will shop for food. There are so many decisions to make and agree upon before moving in together. Look before you leap.