what are qualities u look for in your life partner??
@satishvarma142 (302)
India
November 27, 2008 12:22pm CST
hi i jus wanna know ...when you want to get married..what are qulaities u look for in your lifepartner..or person your goona marry...?tell me ur deam bride or bridegroom and please mention qualities you rquire inthem
4 responses
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
I prefer somebody who does not smoke. He should be someone I can rely on and can accept my shortcomings. Someone who can be very proud of me even during my ugliest days. Someone who is drivingly ambitious, family oriented and a good provider.
I mean every girls dreamed for someone who will always be there, I am no exemption, I don't like someone who after the wedding will go abroad because he wants to earn money for the family. Why not making the most of his time earning money before settling down? I want somebody who will spend time with his family and help raising kids.
@takeshi_azumi (17)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
^i agree with you jlamela...i prefer someone that is a good provider and will spend time with his family. a family man! Before i enter into marriage thing, i see to it that my partner in life is faithful and loving and trustworthy...and i believe i got him.
I also like someone who works hard first and earn more money before settling down rather than working abroad for a greener pasture right after the wedding. Although this may tests fidelity yet it is hard to have long distance relationship because wherever we are, temptations are there on both men and women. I would rather keep my loving and close-knitted family with average earnings rather than having an uncertainty kind of a family with lots of money. Money cannot buy happiness...though sometimes, lol.
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@uditpanda (1023)
• India
27 Nov 08
I believe u r going to geta variety of replies satish as everybody search for someone who would have the same mental vines to match with that of self. For me my dream bride should be a simple,down to earth girl,helping & understanding in nature with little arrogance & jealousy inside her. she should be patient & broad minded to accept all the odds that our relationship would have to face on its way.
What about u?
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@satishvarma142 (302)
• India
27 Nov 08
she should understand me well.adjust to diffrent situations and should love me
@julise (494)
• Indonesia
27 Nov 08
First, we have to love each other, have the same vision and mission
Second, we have to be able to stay together no matter how difficult the condition
Third, we have to able to trust each other.
Thats all that matters.
But ofcourse there's other list that will not be important as long as We can achieve those 3.
The list like, he has to be smart, funny, handsome,... hahahaha not important... but thats the list that you look for a boyfriend (ofcourse one of those boyfriends probably will be the bridefroom one day)
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@bellebads (740)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
the man i marry should know me inside out and accepts me for who i am and love me unconditionally. well, i don't need to look for him because i already found him in fact we've been married now for almost 3 years, 3 years of happy marriage.
