LOVE -- how should it feel ?

I understand what you're going into and you're right now is not the right time to just enter into a new relationship. For now, what you need is start finding yourself and learn to love yourself and from there you can know ehn you are ready to love others too. You deserve to be happy and move on with your new life.

I understand what you are wanting. The strongest relationships start with a mutual feelings towards one another. Unrequitted love may make for great songs, stories, and sound romantic, but always ends up hurting. Loving one another includes respecting each other and allows each one to be themselves. Loving each other involves caring for each other, wanting to make each other happy, wanting to be with each other above anyone else. Love does not cause hurt or pain. Love is taking a deep friendship to a much higher plane, sharing much in common, yet allowing differences and individuality and independence. I am the luckiest guy in the world, as I am married to my best friend, who is not only my wife and best friend, but my companion and my lover also. While both of us can imagine a life without each other, we choose to stay together because life is so much better together rather than separate. I wish you love and happiness in the new year!

To me, love does not hurt. Its the loss of love, the betrayal of love that hurts. I say that you should take your time in figuring out what you want in a mate, then be open to receiving the kind of love that you deserve before you start looking. What most people don't realize is that these hurts are very real, and in some cases can scar very deep. You don't want to drag these hurts into another relationship with a person that had nothing to do with their cause. This will cause them pain, and further yours.

once in awhile things goes good for us, then it toss in a curb ball or two. then we often feel like we hit rock bottom, then we have a few choices to make either sit around and do nothing about it. or we can do something. often it may take us time to find that something but as far as love goes, they say there is always someone for everyone, you will find that someone who will treat you the right way, sweep you right off your feet. keep your faith and dream

Hey girlfriend! I wish I could answer that question, but I honestly don't think I know the answer! I am afraid to have the feelings because I don't want to feel the pain. The man that I am with right now doesn't love me the way I would want to be loved. He is my best friend and I love him, but he doesn't love be as anything but a best friend even though we live together and do everything together. If and when he leaves I will be hurt badly. I didn't ever want to feel that pain again, not ever. I didn't plan to get involved with anyone for that reason and now I will probably end up hurt! And if this does end, like I think it will I will not go through this again! I would much rather be alone! It just isn't worth the pain. So to me love is pain and it is something that I don't want to feel ever again!