why are you still in love with him?

I've seen women who stood by their husbands even though they cheated countless times. They say that they're currently happy since their husbands have changed but I can't imagine myself in their shoes. I may be totally in love with the person but I was cheated, I'd have too much self respect to let it pass "just like that" Thanks for commenting in my discussion!

I'm a man and had been cheated for two times, but the question is. Why they cheated me? things that happened have reasons. It the love that i give to them is not enough? or to much? did i treat them will? lots of questions in my mind. Its in the person if she/he will still loved the person that cheated on him/her. Its really hard to define the meaning of love. You can't easily detect if its a love or not. But first, think why such things happened, what is the reason? I have an ex sweetheart that i treated will, and give everything i have, but still she cheated me, and there's no other option for me i let her go, maybe she is not the right person for me. Its just a matter of acceptance.

I don't think I could stay in love with someone who would betray me like that. It would take a lot of counseling and a lot of talking to one another to figure out why it happened in the first place. Love is defined to me as something that is inexplainable. Cheating always is explainable and often can be talked through but should never really be accepted. Once the trust is gone both parties now have to live with 1. the person who did it must live with that guilt and 2. the person who had it happen to them must live with trust issues. Relationships should be based on trust and once that trust is gone.. How can you survive as a couple?