are you willing to be a listener

China
November 27, 2008 9:30pm CST
i always listen to others to say their opinion,until they stop,then i begin to start my talk. i think it is good for us learn more knowledge,form better opinion on items. do you think it is right?
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• United States
28 Nov 08
Generally that's considered right. I think it's applicable all the time but there are people out there who would argue that some situations don't call for opinions... religion comes to mind as well as extremist ideologies.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
12 Dec 08
I believe that I cannot be a good talker till I am a good listener. I believe that I am a good listener and I do listen to others properly and attentively, else I won't be able to solve their problem or some suggestions, if required. I am patient and careful in listening to others and I give othes ample opportunity to pour out their feeling. I first try to listen to them very very patiently and after listening and understanding what others want to convey, I start the talking. I am more of a listener and love to listen to others, I know now a days everyone wants to talk, however, no one has the time to listen to others. Therefore, giving a patient hearing to someone dear to you, definitely cheers him up and give him a kind of satisfaction that somebody has listened to him.
@genie82 (65)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
yes, i agree. through listening, we can learn something. and also through listening, we can do actions that can teach us.
@jaffna (778)
• India
1 Dec 08
yep!we would be getting better knowledge when we listen rather than when we talk.I have began to listen more to others and am following a habit of talking or responding only after someone finishes their conversations.I have been always willing for a listener.
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
being a good listener doesn't end up on listening but instead fucos on the how you can make a better solution. giving the speaker (friend) a good comport letting him/her know that you will always be there for her/him. after all your not just listening but you gain knowledge how to deal those event if it happens in the future. i like listening other. gather info and giving the best way i can offer.