men are tricky!

Men are very simplistic actually. We usually go out of our way for the woman in our relationships. Personally, I am continually courteous as long as I receive the same respect back. Men sometimes hold women on a higher pedestal rather than as an equal and this is what causes the noticeable change in how we 'treat' women. However I find that after the utopian feelings dissipate, the men are usually beaten down by the women. Women are MUCH more complicated.

Hmmm...I guess not all men are like this. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs and 4 months and his still actually really sweet.

I don't know that I would say that its a trick, performed by men only. I think that we all want to put our "best foot forward" early on in dating. Sometimes we fail once we are in the relationship then we fail to continue to show each other the same type of treatment. Taking for granted that you will always have the opportunity to prove yourself. But unless you present a picture that is absolutely not you, then I don't know how it all just disappears. I have heard many men say the exact same thing about women.

Sometimes the girls just enjoy all the attention and play hard to get while the men do all the hard work, the girls give nothing in return emotionally. Then when the men stop all the "goodies" they complain that the men don't love them anymore Ofcourse this is just one side of the coin and does happen, alternatively it could just turn into a life long relationship. I guess you just need to be a bit open minded, honest and sincere, that goes for any relationship.

but not on the other guy,specially the one that i have...were been together for almost 14 yrs,and happily speaking ,nothing have been change...maybe i cathed the good one...hope you too...?

women are tricky too...(I am a woman myself)this is just human nature.You cant expect a person to be always sweet...People get tired sometimes.

it is true. at times they are so good. next moment they will throw you. it depends what they want at the moment. some women are like this too