Online Flirting

Jamaica
November 27, 2008 11:42pm CST
What would you do if you were in a relationship with someone for a substantial amount of time and they still flirt online alot? Is this something that would bother you or would you not care? Do you think that the online flirting can develop into something worse and have a negative effect on your relationship?
7 responses
• United States
13 Dec 08
I think flirting online or in real life can both develop into something more. I think it gives people the wrong messages and invites them into thinking that even though they are in a relationship they still are interested in getting more from other people and it means to me there not really happy with their relationship since they're set on flirting with other people.
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@shooie (4984)
• United States
28 Nov 08
I met my husband online. Once in awhile he will flirt as well as do I. Like he says I'my the one he is with and he isn't going anywhere and I'm not going anywhere. Is where the trust comes in. If you met him online and you left someone you were with and or he left someone he was with so you two could be together then ya I would worry about it. I see it this way if a guy or girl leaves someone they were married or in a relationship with to be with me they will leave me as well or I would leae them. If you cheated or he cheated so you guys could be together then it may happen again. (karma)
• Jamaica
29 Nov 08
thanks for your comments. its appreciated. we didn't leave anyone to be with each other we just sort of ended up that way.
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
Hi sunshine. Of course it will bother me since I know some people who met their true love online. Online flirting is just the same as the normal flirting guys do. I will surely talk my partner and tell him of my feeling towards it before that thing might lead into serious trouble. Its best to communicate to your partner of what you think that could inflict problem to the realtionship.
• Jamaica
28 Nov 08
thanks so much for commenting. I'll take your advice:)
@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
28 Nov 08
It depends,but if you don't like,you'd better make it stop,and you think it has created some uncomfort or trouble,just tell the other not to do that again,or you would take steps to avoid its further development!However,take it easy,and solve it!my friend!
• Jamaica
28 Nov 08
thanks for your comments its really appreciated:) i'm working on it, its a bit of a touchy situation
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
28 Nov 08
Hello sunshine! If that would happen to me, then I would finally end up the relationship. I don't think I can't trust him anymore. I met my husband through online dating site and I never saw him flirting to other girls. He even stop going to the site when we finally met.
• Jamaica
28 Nov 08
Thanks for commenting on my post.
• Australia
6 Feb 10
well of course if ur interested about what the other person is sayin,well yeah i woud care
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
28 Dec 08
it depends for both of you!