want to get married??

i dont want to marry with a man that i dont love..fyi, my relationship between me n mf bf is not accepted by my family...as i love my bf very much then i shud keep on trying to make my family accept them as one of the family members...i know that im so rude but trust me, i love him very much and i cannot leave him..i just hope that one day my family will accept him....sooner or later...

I am so lucky because arranged marriage is not part of the Filipino culture. But if ever my parents chose someone for me to be married with, I think I will follow because I believe that my parents know what is best for me and they wouldn't choose someone who will make me feel disappointed or something like that. Well, I just got married last January. Ofcourse, I was the one who chose my husband. My parents were hesitant to let me get married at first but they still allowed me because they know that my husband makes me happy and that we love each other.

how can a sensitive parents arrange a marriage for their child? some says because they know what is best for their children but i don't think i can consider such decision. i won't follow them no matter what. besides, it is not them who will suffer once i get into that mess. i will go and marry the one i love by hook or by crook. when i was still in college my mother used to do things like that. like dictating who my boyfriend would be and citing some insensitive reasons which i really refuse to understand. when i got the chance to go away from her, i decided to get married without informing her. because that's the only chance that i have to make her realize that what she is forcing me to do is not at all agreeable. when i met my husband and felt that he is really the one i want to spend my whole life with, we got married. i even made a vow that i will marry the guy that i truly love, with or without her blessings. until now, we are that okay, but i don't regret it. why? because i have made a difference and im happy with it.

If it just for introducing, is OK with me. Arranged wife, no way. Because, this is our life. We will be the one to experience everything happened after marriage, not our parent. And yes, we know that our parent were the one that bring us into this world, we the one who paid for our living expenses, school and other need. But, at the time we finish our study, starting our life as mature human being, their responsibility has finished also. I may say it finish with a success. When we start to take responsible with our life, we have a full control of our life. BR

I think I wouldn't marry with the one even if he was introduced by my parents. today, I think most parents pay little attention to their mature children's personal affairs,especially marriage thing. we like to do things follow our own way.I think all the people will chose to marry with the people they loved, so do I .