Lover's unmarried

I slightly agree with the person above- but then, i do not care much for couples who don't want to get married, if thats what they're comfortable with- as long as they can trust each other etc- then it's fine i guess. However again- I would want to marry my partner, as i feel it does show a commitment and loyalty to me. I am a very insecure person- and if they did not want to marry me I'd feel like there is something wrong with me.

I am not in favor of those who live together without getting married. I think if they really love each other, they must prove it by getting married. By that, they will have responsibilities and a commitment to each other. For me, marriage is really am important matter. I think that if someone is really serious with you, he will ask you to marry him. Well, I just got married last January and I am really happy about it. Now, my husband and I have a three-week old son and we are very happy about our married life.

commitment and loyalty can exist without marriage. in fact, if it doesn't already exist between the couple, they really shouldn't be considering marriage. I've been with my partner for nearly a decade, and we're getting married next year. the way I see it, we've ALREADY got the marriage. we'll be making it official with the wedding, but the marriage already exists between us, with no legal interference. we live together, love each other, are committed to a future with each other, we are faithful to each other. and this has been in place for many years now, so we know we have staying power. we know we can ride out change and stress, and difficulties, and come out just as strong. so we know our marriage will work, because it's already working.

I try to respect each couple's dynamics but personally, I am the marrying type which is what my husband and I did 6 months ago. There are challenges but we've never been happier

Personally I do not have a problem if a couple decides to live together and they are not married, but I think that it should be with the intent of getting married. I think if two people love each other there should not be any reason that they should not get married.