noisy neighbours
By chrislotz
@chrislotz (8137)
Canada
November 28, 2008 10:17am CST
We, my daughter and I, have new people moved in upstairs of the house we live in. They
are so noisy but since they just moved in I have been waiting a couple weeks before
talking to them about it. But last night at 2 am they decided to do a load of laundry
and since their machines are right above my bedroom it woke me up. They continued to
do their laundry all night long and I was awake all night long because of it.
The night before one of them had a shower at 3 am and woke me and now this. Should I
talk to them about it now, or wait till they have settled in. It has only been a week
so should I wait another week to talk to them about it, or should I just take the inititive
and talk to them now about it. I can't keep going without sleep because of this.
What would you suggest I do? Please help me. I don't want to start an argument with them
but this can't go on night after night. Help me with this please.
Alrighty then, talk to you later my friend,
Have a good day, Chris
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3 responses
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
28 Nov 08
I live in an apartment and have noisy upstairs neighbors sometimes too. Some can be worse than others but none that cause me to lose sleep. Since I'm in an apartment, the neighbors are often just there short term so it doesn't last long enough for me to go talk to them about it. I'm always afraid that if I make them mad they will just get noisier. The worst so far has been about 6 months ago and I think the kids were skating or skate boarding in the kitchen. Since the layout of their apartment is the same as ours, it would be right over my head while I was working on the computer and usually during the day. I have a feeling that it was after school but while the parents were at work. In that case, I didn't want the kids to get revenge for me telling their parents. My truck has already been egged twice and I can't remember doing anything to cause it.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
29 Nov 08
That's too bad. My situation is a little bit different, thank goodness.
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
5 Dec 08
Since you are the only response I got to this discussion, I guess you and I are the
only ones that have noisy neighbours. I guess other people are just luckier than
you and I.
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@paidreader (5143)
• United States
5 Dec 08
Thanks for the BR! Hopefully your noisy neighbor will be more considerate in future.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
16 Jan 09
[i]Hi chris,
I hope this is resolved already! I hate to experienced that again! When I was renting before during my College time, I always suffer this, with roommates who are very inconsiderate and even when I will confront them, they still do it, like laughing and talking loud even 2 am or 3 am where almost everyone is asleep!
Later on, I had to talk to our landlady about the issue and she confronted these girls[/i]!
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
16 Jan 09
They aren't doing any more laundry in the middle of the night but we have some other
issues and instead of making a big deal out of it all, we are just going to move out
when our lease is up at the end of May.
They are the noisest people I have ever heard. I guess they just can't help it. Like
when she is on her computer she drags her chair all over the room, on hardwood floors,
and it sounds like thunder down here. We have asked her to try not to do that and she
says we are being unreasonable and maybe she is right. I mean, we don't mind if she
does it in the evening but sometimes she wakes us up at 2 or 3 in the morning doing it.
I don't know when they sleep when both of them work during the day too. So I have just
given up saying anything and we will just move out. No big deal.
Alrighty then, talk to you later my friend,
Have a good mylotting day, Chris
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
17 Jan 09
ohhh....that is very hard to deal with! There are really people who have no manners in nature! Glad to know that you will be moving soon, but still it's a lot of days to sacrifice! Hmmm....I wish people like this will learn how to consider other people!
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
8 Dec 08
I don't think I would say anything at all to them, at least not at first. My husband and I have had a few noisy neighbors before (this was before we married).
The first one I can recall was when I would stay at my late grandmother's when I was little. She lived in an apartment on the lower level. And of course the noisy neighbors were right above her. Sometimes we could hear them stomp around. It would annoy me (and I'm sure her). Luckily for her she had an organ (her eldest daughter was a pianist) and she would let me "play" loudly until it stopped. If it started again, I'd "play" again. And no, I never had lessons. LOL
The second one was I was a teenager. I lived with my mom in apartment complex and my neighbors right next to me would be rowdy and loud. They'd blast their music and whatnot. It drove me bonkers. I would kick the adjoining wall hard at times, but it would never do any good.
Another story was when my husband and his parents lived in a different apartment complex. However, they lived above the noisy neighbors. My late father-in-law actually threw one of my husband's weights (I think it was a 45 lb plate) SPLAT! onto the floor. He did this a few times and it did the trick. The neighbors stopped being noisy. Of course, it might have helped that my husband was really into working out back then and his muscles probably scared the crap out of them. LOL
I think I'd cry if I had to live in an apartment now. Not because of the possibility of noisy neighbors, but because my family and I would be the noisy neighbors. With having an autistic son it can get quite noisy at times from all of us. I'm sure all of our neighbors would hate us.
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
9 Dec 08
Too late. I already talked to them about it. I talked nicely to them and just told them
I wanted to inform them about it since they may not know since they just moved in. They
were really nice about it and said they won't be doing their laundry at 3 in the morning
anymore. They didn't know we could hear it and so now they know. It all went very well.
I wish I hadn't given out the best response yet because I would have given it to you,
if I hadn't. You put a lot of thought into this response, thank you.
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