Do you allow your gf/bf/husband/wife to chat?

What exactly do you mean when you say no chatting? As in no flirting with other people anymore? I'm curious

chatting to his cousins,brother and nephews are okay with me and to our friends. I trusted him and I know he will not do anything that makes our marriage broken. I allow him with purely business and no flirting to anybody.

It depends who shes talking too. I don't really want her talking to people she doesn't know. I don't see the point in it. Luckily she doesn't so i don't have a problem.

I think that's a tad bit controlling to say no chatting. you have to realize that every relationship needs variety. You can still focus on your relationship while still chating. It's probably better if you both take time out of all the stresses of life and chat with others. There's nothing wrong with this. But focusing solely on relationships, careers and your future can be tiresome. If my fiance ever imposed this rule on me I would leave him. Sorry but I'm not about to have someone tell me how to spend my time. If you both aren't able to maintain a relationship while being able to do other curriculars perhaps you should re-evaluate the relationship. Relationship is work and it does take focus but never should it have restrictions. So to answer your title header. .. allow my fiance.. I would never place any restrictions on him to begin with. He can do whatever he wants, if I found it was hindering the relationship I'd ask him if we could have some alone time but never say. No you can't chat or go online etc. I think this is a bit far fetched, but then again everyone is different. But there's no way do I agree with any of what you said.

Hello n30wing! I don't see what is wrong with chatting with others. I think this is a great way to meet people - not for meeting potential lovers but for friendship. I had met a lot of people online, but all of them are friends. Some of my friends are happy moms and proud dads with kids. They chat - for the need that they want to simply connect and meet other people for mere friendship and business opportunity reasons. No intimacy involved! I am not here to pick a fight here, but I strongly believe that the no-chat rule is quite a childish decision. It just means that you don't trust each other, so you still need to enforce that no-chat rule. It is a lot similar to the situation where a husband does not want the wife to go out of the house for fear that she may be meeting another man. Learn to trust each other. It is always a part of the relationship. If you need to chat, pick your friends well. Avoid those that are simply made for meeting other people. If you had learned to trust each other, then I am sure that your girl is really the one for you.

I think it is fine to allow your partner to chat. Chatting with others would not ruin a relationship. Trust is an important aspect of love. Not allowing your partner to chat or meet other friends is a sign that trust is absent in your relationship. If you love and trust someone you would not be afraid to let her meet other people because you know that in the end, it will always be you that she's gonna choose.

really? well for me it is ok as long its just a friendly chat but lately we dont have time for that its just about work and work and work..

I didn't say to my fiance stop chatting, because we meet in online dating... I respect him if he wanted to chat with other girl but just for friends..

Hi n30win! nice for you, but i dont have problem about chatting!! i use the msn and i can talk with the people and my boyfriend too;) this is not a problem for me. Have a nice day and hope you will have a very good weekend!! See you soon and bye bye.

I don't mind him chatting with people that he knows, friends and such, and I don't mind if they are male or female. I would not however like him going into chat rooms just to find new people to chat with. If I were to find out that he was doing this I would not be happy. He is a closet World of Warcraft player, so I don't mind him chatting on there, but I do like to know who he is chatting to and about what. I trust him fully, I just don't trust others LOL. He's the same way though. He wants to know things too... so as long as it is innocent chatting with friends, I don't mind

Relationship build with love and trust does not deprive the things that your girlfriend love or fond to do of. Yes bounderies should be clear enough to be understood which needs the two of you to be in agreement with. Chatting with friends and family and good and happy times to do.

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