Long distance relationships

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I'd like to hear your thoughts on this... We want to migrate to OZ, neither one of us have the qualifcations to start the migrating proses. But we find out that they need heavy vehicle truck drivers in NZ. We figured once there we can work our way to OZ. The thing is they require 3 to 5 years experience. In the US they have seasonal work available on the farms, no experience required except the one, being able to drive a truck and a valid licence. My husband want to go for this 3 years to gain his experience so that we can apply for a job in NZ. In the 3 years we will see him a month a year before going back. Or he can arrange to stay in the US, until the 3 years has expired. We have a baby girl, 9 months. Maybe it wouldn't be such a good idea, because she will grow up without a daddy and wouldn't recognize him after that years.We've been married 3 years and I trust my man, knowing he will not cheat on me. So I know my marrage will not be in any danger, with him being a long way from home.But we think of our child. What would you have done being in this situation? We don't want to do something and regret the dicision in the end...