Have you ever cheated on your partner and got caught?
By roxy101
@roxy101 (72)
South Africa
November 29, 2008 4:01am CST
Long before I was married, I had a boyfriend. We were together a long time.I started working and in my 4 -5 months of working I met another guy that worked in a store accross the street.We started something...a sort of a fling.We were seeing each other for 2 months, without my boyfriend at the time realizing what was going on.
One day I realized what I was doing and felt ashamed. I ended the so called fling with the new guy. And after my conscience eating me allive, I told my boyfriend what had happened. I felt terrible and I could not stand the hurt I caused him, by knowing what I did.
Nothing intamite ever happened between me and the new guy. But it was the idea of cheating on a person I really loved.
And I had sworn I will never in my life do anything like that again.That was a promise I made to myself.
Can you relate to something simular happening to you?
2 responses
@ayu_puteri (261)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 08
honestly, i was cheating to my hubby..but that is 2-3yrs ago..i dont know why i like him but maybe he is very handsome and know what i want..our relationship going on about 1 month until my hubby come back from indonesia..he is smell something bad happen..im tried hiding our affair..but 1day i got caught when he found msg that i give to my boyfriend..im crying all the day..but my hubby still loving me..he never leave me although i done wrong with him..until now i never cheat over him..i love him so much...
@rpluangco (23)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
Ahm, honestly I'm that conscience with my recent girfriend where I was tempted to cheat her when my ex-gf arrived ffrom other place. She had a vacation last summer, we had an often contact with each other..But as I realize, I was hurting somebody, so I let my ex go and went back to her boyfriend.
@roxy101 (72)
• South Africa
1 Dec 08
Hey, thanx for responding.Yeah, this cheating stuff can be very difficult to handle in some situations.I've decided to never do it again, come what may. The guilt feeling is horrible and the constant living in fear to be caught out could drive you crazy.Nah, cheating not for me anymore. Been there, done it, don't like it.Have a great day.
