What would you do if you were the reason for someone else's breakup?
By gemjeweled
@gemjeweled (133)
Philippines
November 29, 2008 5:33am CST
So you have this guy who decided to dump his girlfriend so that he could take those steps to court you. You are well aware that the girlfriend and the guy had been together for quite a time. You are also good friends with that girl - not the best of friends and not an acquaintance too.
Now you found out the guy's ex-girlfriend is hurts too much because she had realized she had lost a long-time relationship because of you.
To top it all, you are beginning to like this guy.
If you were stuck in this seemingly crazy situation, what would you do?
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5 responses
@julia_cordk1 (98)
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
I don't think its a good idea to trust that guy after what he did on his girlfriend. because I believed whatever he did to his girlfriend, sooner or later he will do it again to another girl..so beware!
@kaliyha (591)
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
Even if I do like him too, I don't think I'd take him right away. I don't personally blame myself why he broke up with her because his actions are his own but I don't want to appear too eager either. I'd wait until both their wounds have somewhat healed because I'd keep in mind that what if the (ex)gf was me? How would I feel?
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
Well, first of all make sure that the guy is really true with his feelings.
But kudos to him for breaking up with his girlfriend first before he made his move. Instead of making a move while his still in a relationship. So, that's a sign that his really into you. But for how long? I mean, he was able to do it with a long time girlfriend...check first if this is the first time that his done it. Cause if this is like the second time..then it just means that the guy can not be satisfied.
@iamfine (740)
• China
29 Nov 08
I think if such things happened, you should analyse how much you like this guy. if you like him very much, it is unwise to give the chance to others.
But think twice, he did such bad thing to his ex-gf, wouldn't he do the same thing to you in the future?
So, think twice before you make decision. It is unwise to be together with a dangerous guy.
@bellebads (740)
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
if the guy courted me i will not accept him right a way i will let him think first if he is serious of giving up his long time girlfriend. i don't wanna be unfair to the girl because i know the feeling of being dumped by your boyfriend as the golden rule says "do not do unto others what you don't want to do unto you". i put my self in the shoes of the girl.
