hey you all how are you
United States
November 29, 2008 7:43pm CST
Hey how are you all? I was just wondering about something there's this guy I know that really needs some good advice and he needs it quick. He has this woman that does nothing but use him for money. Im trying to help him and all he knows is he likes this woman and all she does is keep him very emotional at times but not around her of course because he doesnt want to show it around her. He tells me what she does and all I can tell him is to leave and not go back and he says he cant he's too involved with her too leave and he feels its his last chance at a woman because he's been in bad relationships already and he would love have a least one child before its too late. I feel if keeps going at this rate he will probably end up doing something stupid he's too nice of a guy to do that. So if anyone has any advice for this friend of mine I would like to hear and quick if possible.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
30 Nov 08
well emotions are very strong and no one can make this person do anything against what he feels, I guess its a decision between love and being sensible, but it is a decision he alone has to make , he might wake up in time, hope so,...
@LetterWriter (58)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
I agree with lilaclady.. It is a decision he alone has to make.. i think by your description, your friend is in the right age [though he seem not to be in the right state of mind] to make his own decisions. Just be sure to hang in there just in case he'd badly need a friend.
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@slothgurl (569)
• Enumclaw, Washington
30 Nov 08
Oh for Pete's sake why in the heck do people have to be so dramatical! You can only be USED if you allow yourself to be USED. What so you mean "he wants to have a child before it's too late?" Are his nuts gonna fall off? Is his sperm gonna run dry? Let him figure it out on his own. It's called EXPERIENCE. If you're his friend, just be there for him. #:)
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