How to handle ladies crying?
By srganesh
@srganesh (6340)
India
November 30, 2008 5:07am CST
Ever felt uncomfortable with your wife crying?Ladies start crying at ease while men are not supposed to cry under any situation.Is it some sort of relief for ladies to cry or they just use it to blackmail emotioanlly?Most probably ladies win through crying situations.What do you thinf of this?
5 responses
@etranger (126)
• India
30 Nov 08
crying once in a while is good for mental stability else every things builds up and explodes .... its for both men and women.... but due to our society its really difficukt to confront a guy who's crying it sounds sissy even to imagine a guy to cry but have seen many of my frids cry in few circumstances
@sachinkr9 (140)
• India
30 Nov 08
Ya i also agree with this point that crying make you feel better women are ofen cry for small things too easly but mans are able to put said things in there heart.
@chandu245 (647)
• India
30 Nov 08
No friend some body will use as a blackmail because they want to make their work without delay. But some time some words may hurt to them so they may start crying. But according to me the ladies are very smooth.
@mokbul (616)
• Singapore
30 Nov 08
In the situation probably is the best to move away from the scene. Crying is meant for showing husband make him emotionally for achieving something, so if none is there crying will stop automatically.
Well if it is genuine demand, I would say wife does not need to cry, she can demand it.
If it is not genuine and the crying is entertained, things will keep on getting worse.
@sachinkr9 (140)
• India
30 Nov 08
Humm hard to answer but in my view keep away from there for a while let them blast out and after things become cool go for them and try to short out the problem
@gemjeweled (133)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
Hey there srganesh.
I am speaking on the side of the ladies. Well, girls cry. We cry because we felt bad about something. In more chances than you think, it is a sort of relief for ladies to cry out what they feel, rather than just using this emotion to blackmail a person.
Ladies are hardwired to express their emotions at the outright. We prefer to have somebody who will listen to our problems. We need to vent out those emotions.
I understand that men react differently. Most of the time, the emotion is bottled up. They don't cry. They get angry, or find the nearest bar to "drink" out the problem.
There is no easy solution to this. Try to figure out whether a crying lady simply wants to express her emotion or just to use that emotion to blackmail a thing. This is not easily seen when a lady cries, you have to analyze the circumstances and decide whether that emotion is for real.