Chemistry or stability?

Hi, i think it needs more than the chemistry to pass the test.you need to see the chemistry to go on and on and on...you need physics to maintain.you need maths to be trouble free...you need biology to enjoy for all time to come...and with all these papers are in hand you will get the stability in relationship...:))

Hi there Jenin. I like this discussion here. If you ask me, I'd go for chemistry, of course. But I would understand if someone would want stability from me though. I believe that the two could be combined and the essence is to look for someone whom you can relate to, (chemistry for me) and whom is a responsible person. Once someone is responsible, the stability will fall into place and I believe the two can go hand in hand together.

I think, it would be stability over chemistry. While both are important, I would like to have a stable relationship that would overpower the chemistry with time. What use does chemistry come without stability? And having both is an out of the world combination which everyone of us would desire.

Chemistry does it for me. Without it, things tend to get boring and go downhill mighty fast so there goes the stability factor.

I choose chemistry... this is where a relationship starts. right? while if you are only having stability in a relationship... well for me.. i tend to get bored, then when you are bored and no more chemistry.. why are you still riding that ride? no more thrill... but then again if you love that person when the chimistry is gone... you would like to bring it back and hold on to stability! hahahah! but still I want chemistry coz this will keep me going

Hmm.. this is difficult. I don't think a relationships can become stable if they don't have good chemistry. Chemistry is a vital agent in a relationship. Without it i don't think the relationship can be interesting at all. Stability without chemistry is like a job you keep doing but you hate it. If you ask me, then i guess i'd gamble and choose chemistry. It's what i'm looking for in a relationship. I want us to be on the same wavelenght.