If you call by the name of an old partner?
By zenith2007
@zenith2007 (241)
Italy
November 30, 2008 12:39pm CST
Years ago I happened is that during an intimate relationship with a person who loved to madness she called me with the name of one of his former patner.
Frankly at that moment I have not given much importance to us but after what I thought a lot.
What you'd done in my place?
5 responses
@comfort55 (1574)
• India
1 Dec 08
Later on when I would have thought about it, my mind would have been definitely disturbed, thinking his mind is still occupied with his ex.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I have done that one time but never had someone call me by another name before. I had just got out of a relationship with another person not too long before meeting a new person. I was so sorry and apologised over and over again.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Well i think if a person is with someone for a while,it sometimes is natural to call someone by the name of a person they have been with before..I know that when i married my husband i accidently called him by my ex husbands name.I wasn't even thinking of my ex husband.I think i did it out of habit,so i don't think it would have bothered me that much,since it was just probably because she/no was use to calling that persons name...
@savypat (20216)
• United States
30 Nov 08
I guess it would all depend on how secure you are. It could be treated as a joke or as a reason to break off. I think I would treat it as a joke and let it go.
In times of passion a different part of the brain takes over and it's not always
up to date on what has been going on. It often lives in the past.
