Are you a people person? I like people but I guess I'm reserved! How about you?

Hello, well I thins there a ren`t strategies, it`s just a matter of confidence. See, you have to remember who you are with in those moments, you know, they are probably your friends your family and they already know you, so... wht`s the matter about sharing quality time with them? Yes, I am reserved too, and sometimes is quite difficult if there are posponed discussions and stuff without being solved but the most important is to remember you`re in their hearts and viceversa. I was also thinking that sometimes people feel in the way you do befcaus, probably are concerned about what other would say if they change their natural and regular behaviour... so what?...life is to change sometimes, is the live it thae best way possible, and there is something I always say to myself: You`ll never have other day like today, you`ll never have another December 1st of this year, so try to enjoy what the day brings to you... we`ll never have the chance to see all our family together, probably this christmas is the last so why not to be completly free and surprise your relatives and friends with the cheerful and funny you? bye, Isabel from Colombia

I am a people person. I talk to everyone!! The cashiers, waitresses, waiters and salesclerks. When I worked in the public people always loved coming to see me because the knew I would chat with them not just do the job I was working on at the time. I still to this day have people say I know you from ..... wherever it was they remembered me. It is so funny. My daughter gets so freaked out and says 'do you know everybody?' I grew up in this town. It only has 21,000 people in it. I have gone to school here and worked here the majority of my life so YES I know a LOT of people!!! LOL

I am not a people person my friend, I guess I am used to and prefer my own company too much and tend to shy away from social occasions like parties and clubbing etc, but when I am on my course there are 18 of us and there are only two males, I do find for the first three or four lessons I am very shy and aloof, but I soon gain the confidence to be able to speak up. In a room of strangers you fear being judged and if whatever you do you are judged upon and people tend to assume what a nasty word that is, if you don't say anything people automatically assume, so better they assume right by speaking up and being friendly, although I do find that hard to do, being wary of strangers, but hey I am getting there. It's whatever you feel comfortable with. Unfortunately I have learnt that we cannot be an island in life we cannot cut ourselves off and we have to interact with others, whether we like it or not. You probably couldn't get a more reserved person than me. I do have the confidence but it has been buried beneath life's experiences which have pulled me to pieces, but I am digging away and know the confidence is there. You follow your own rules not others.

Hello, AndrewFreyne. I'm pretty open to people I do not know. If I am meeting somebody, I'll talk to them normally and then I make some good friends. However, after I know some people, I cannot talk to them like before. For example: in my classroom, when we just got there, everybody was new. I talked to a lot of people, and made my friends. I cannot talk to 40 people, so I just made some friends, while keeping in chat with others. But I did not spend much time with the others. Now, I find it strange to talk to them. I'd rather be quiet and alone than talk to them. They are always in a group, and I would find it strange to be there. I usually spend some quality time with the friends that I made, though. And I can talk to everybody, but it just won't feel as good as talking to my friends. But hey, I have no trouble in communicating at all. I can talk to anybody, and I mean anybody. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

i would say i am a people person this has been developed in me. i was born shy and introvert not a people person it could be that my mom would not allow me to play with other kids way back i was small but as i meet a lot of people i started to open up and talking with them until i am one of those who would smile around and try to open up with people. another reason would be my work requires me to meet a lot of people everyday with different attitudes and personalities. just open up yourself and smile a lot!!!

I like meeting people and making new friends. I love having many friends too. But there is a certain group of friends that i enjoy being with all the time. I have no problem being with a crowd of people but there are times that i just want to be by myself. Though, i love and enjoy my friends' company, they understand when i am quiet while they are having a good laugh. Guess, i am a bit of both.

I used to like to be like that. Spending time with a lot of people for hours together listening, sharing my opinion, having a good laugh once in a while and so on..An in the beginning would be to myself and would open out over a period of time. Things have changes a lot over the years and i somehow prefer to keep to my self and get into socialiasing very little these days and only say what i want, when i want.

well yeah i m people's person... i enjoy talking to different and unique kind of person,or should i say this is how i gain knowledge about the world,whats going on around.. so if you've got a good talking ability,which makes sense.. so it would not be a difficult task ...to become a peoples person..!

I like to consider myself a people person, but at the same time I do tend to be reserved when I am in a big group of people. I guess my comfort lies in one on one or small groups. When Im around my two roomates I have no problem being the center of attention or saying just about anything, but when im a group of people I tend to be more of a listener.

I'm not a people person at all. I have maybe 5 people who I can really truly and fully feel comfortable to be myself around. I'm super shy and never really talk at all..even if your talking up a storm to me.. i'll say maybe 2-5 words lol I want to be more of people person though, i want to be able to talk to people and feel comfortable around them to be myself and show myself to someone. I am very closed off from people. I don't show anyone anything and so i do understand why i am alone and have no friends really. I have a small few but i never get to see them. So i've been trying to make some new ones but it's not going so well because i don't talk very much because i'm too shy to open up and i also have social anxiety..so i guess they get bored with me. if i could only be who i was online though it would be easy for me to make friends. online i have no problem really. i mean i'm still shy sometimes but as you can see from this response i have no problem talking to people. now if you were standing in front of me, you'd be lucky if i made eye contact with you. I've gotten better but i've still have so much work to do. I have no strategys yet lol i should get some tho!

I am a reserved person.. i don't like spending time with a group of people.. i don't know, it's just that i am not comfortable being with them..i tend to shy away and mingle with my hubby or close friends..

I'm a reserved person. I want to join a group of people who I trust , I will feel comfortable. But I afraid face to face to one person who I don't familar with. Because I don't know how to start a talk and enjoy the talk. If I am talked to , I feel it's more easy for me to keep a dailouge going.

I hate people. As in the general public of people at least. I'm not joking. I have 1 best friend, her family, and my family. I can play friendly, I can make conversation. But as a whole, people annoy me. And I avoid socializing with random people because I just get emotionally drained from it. I was pretty friendly as a kid. I sometimes wonder if I'm repressing something that caused me to become such a loner. I don't really care most of the time though. I'm happy with my life.

I work very well with the people around me so I am a people person as long as that person doesn't bother me or anything like that.

im an introvert and am practicing the art of being a hermit lol! i get along with ppl quite easily..and ive been told at least, that im easy to get along with. however i dont like being around ppl. i dont even like being around extended family members. i dont like crowds, which is why i dont like going shopping etc. groups of ppl make me extremely nervous..we're talking lots of sweat nervous. so i do everything i can to avoid them as much as possible. i really dont leave the house unless i absolutely have to. ive been told a few times that i should see a doctor..::sigh:: i dont want to go to the damn doctors office and sit with all those ppl and them have the dr tell me that there really isnt anything wrong, that its all in my head. sure it might be all in my head but having a panic attack and sweating like a pig in the bbq sure makes a big impression on ppl lol! bah doctors...besides the doctor will have to touch me, i dont care if you need to hear my heartbeat, dont touch me! there..i am such a ppl person it makes me sick LMAO!

I am not a people person. I have a few good friends and prefer to spend my time and energy nuturing these friendships. My husband is the opposite, he will chat away to anyone, goes on courses to meet new people. Jacks

I would consider myself not a people person. I use to be in the public eye a lot and never liked it. I would just try to block out everyone and concentrate on what i'm doing but its not easy. i'm a polite person and know how to handle myself with people, I just prefer not to. If i'm in a room full of people I trust and know then i'm okay.

I like meeting new people. If I'm in a room full of people, chances are I'll easily be able to talk at least one or two people, not including people I know. But I'm also the type of person who likes to have by herself. I'm just that type of person.

I am a very private person, but I do like people and I am a people person when I want ot be and I am a very good people person

i love being arround with my friends but i am selecting friends.i laughed to the bones but i dont laughed that much if i dont like who i am with .i am quite you know crab.crab is quite but hmmmmm dangerous hahahaha.