is is possible

United States
November 30, 2008 8:52pm CST
to love some body that loves you so much they would give you the world if they could,i have this problem,this guy is the best and he loves me so much,that while i was so sick in slept on the floor next to me.he works and oays al my bills because i am not able to work right.But i don have the same feelings for hm he has for me,I would never do any thing to hurt him and he knows how i feel.I am nt in love with any man right now nor am i looking to be.I love being with him he is funny he also is helping to take care of my aughter with cancer he takes care of my grand-daughter.There is a age difference but thats not a problem.
4 responses
kambing92
@kambing92 (53)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 08
You may just take him as a best friend? why not just straight forward to each other. Understand each other. your case is kinda like my aunt. My aunt have got heart problem seen she was young. And now she have a good husband taking care of her. She never taught to be with the guy because she don't wants to let him feel regret or anything. For now, they have been years after marry and they take steps son. they are also a happy huSband n wife.. wISH YOU good luck in ur decision..
mommamusic
@mommamusic (882)
• United States
1 Dec 08
thank you and i amg lad she is happy.
uditpanda
@uditpanda (1023)
• India
1 Dec 08
U should feel privileged to be having such a human besides you. U dont need to fall in love with a guy to be close to him/her in life. Mutual understanding & respect for each others feelings & thought is all that is required. Convey your feelings to him. I am sure he will understand...
mommamusic
@mommamusic (882)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Thank you that is avery special answer you are very wise.
katemeow
@katemeow (847)
• Singapore
1 Dec 08
yes, this is very possible. but i think you have to identify what type of feelings you have for him so that you guys are clear on what type of relationship you have so that nobody will get hurt in the end. Good luck and I wish you both the best :)
mommamusic
@mommamusic (882)
• United States
1 Dec 08
You are right i had not thought about it that away thank you.
jayyerex
@jayyerex (224)
• Canada
1 Dec 08
Someone that loves you so much will give his love freely and without any expectation of reciprocation. You should however be very clear with him to avoid any confusion. he sounds like an amazing person with a huge heart. Be honest. It is the best way. Good luck. It will work out if you do the right thing, Jay
mommamusic
@mommamusic (882)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Thankyo and i have been very honest.