If you can change 5 yr in your life, which 5 yr would you choose to re-live?

China
November 30, 2008 9:29pm CST
sometimes i am thinking if i can re-live my life again, what would i do. i do not want to re-live the whole life till date but changing some parts would do. I would opt to change my life from 1998 to 2002 cos that was the period which i had the most changes and i just graduated from the University. i had a gf who later became my wife and i did not cherished her and ended up in a divorce because of all my wrongdoings. If i can change, i would do so and rewrite this part of my life which brings misery and agony to others and myself. I had done a lot of wrong during these period, got hook into gambling and losing lots of money, losing my parents' trust in me, screwing up my career etc. so many that i could not finish listing and mistakes made. How i wish i could do some changes and address those wrongdings. I know some of you may advise me to move-on which i am doing and did but it is just a fantasy on my mind now so i would think of it every now and then. Do you think like me too?
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@gicolet (1702)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Which 5 yr would I choose to re-live? Hmnn...I think I would chose to re-live all 4 years of my high school and my first year in college. I don't know. I thought I was not as smart back then as I became years after that. I wish I made more friends back then cause I don't have a lot of friends now. I've made stupid decisions too...like my first boyfriend. I can't even believe I went out with him just because of peer pressure. Oh well I was being a teenager what could I do? I wish I was more confident during those years. Up to this day I think confidence is the key to success.
• China
1 Dec 08
haha, i know what u mean. i thought of that too. if only i have the maturity now and bring it back to me when i was younger, liffe would have been so much different.