My happy ending
By Denise_Tung
@Denise_Tung (647)
China
November 30, 2008 11:10pm CST
Hey, dear mylot friends. Today I am reviewing my previous discussions and I feel so greatful to the frieds who gave me so much advice. I looked back and find things are exact tuning to the dangerous side if I hadn't backed off.
Ok, the discussions are: Am I in love with this guy? I am hiding this from my bf. Something missing between me and my bf.
Now I am happy because I do hang out with this married colleague and now I am sure what I am doing and my bf is coming back in 11 days. During this period, I figured out that it's not love between me and the married co-worker and I confessed the whole thing to my bf and I am happy because he is coming back and he understands. Last but not least, it is love between me and my bf and I am gonna do more for this relationship. Maybe I will go to my bf's city to get a job, one of the biggest international city and maybe the road is tough, but we are working on it.
Thanks again for the friends who gave me advice!!! You are really genius:D
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18 responses
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
i am really happy with the things going on with you and your boyfriend it is a good thing that you were able to think well and weigh things out before deciding on something!!! wish you the best in all your endeavors on the future.
@1corner (744)
• Canada
1 Dec 08
[Applause] Well done, Denise! Am so happy the situation has gotten clearer to you, and that it's finally working out better between you and your bf. You two sound great for each other, and with mutual effort, can make your relationship work.
Keep us updated here. Who knows, maybe there'll be wedding bells soon in the works for you two!
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@Denise_Tung (647)
• China
3 Dec 08
Hey 1corner. Sure I will keep you dear guys updated. The wedding is still early, lol, but the direction is right:D
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@nini89 (670)
• India
1 Dec 08
Hi Friend! At last you are on the right track and you are going to be with your bf. I congrats you to get back to your bf. How also you have listen to the respond of your mylot friends. I pray for you to get a good job in your bfs big city and both get married and live a beautiful life ahead. Happy mylotting and have a good days.
@ButterflyBear (39)
• United States
2 Dec 08
The road you traveled might have been a difficult and confusing one at times but it led you to a path of honesty and that honesty brought you to a happy filled with happiness. An ending with happiness is always so heart warming. I wish you and your boyfriend love and happiness today, tomorrow and always.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
6 Dec 08
That's great news. I'm so happy you did the right thing and told your friend. That's what real love is about. None of us is perfect and part of a loving relationship is being able to talk to each other, confiding and trusting and helping each other to be better, to be the best we can be. Good on you and all the happiness in the world to you and your love.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Jan 09
I am very happy for you also. I am so glad that other members here were helpful to you. Thanks for sharing with us.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
This is nice news after starting out those discussions of yours regarding your uncertainty within the situation that you shared. 
Hope everything settles well for everyone involved (^_^ )
Hope everything settles well for everyone involved (^_^ )@Denise_Tung (647)
• China
1 Dec 08
Thanks ratyz. I am so satisfied with the relationship and I learned the meaning of giving love the my loved ones. It is just so happy:D
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
1 Dec 08
Denise_Tung,
Just have 2 quotes for you to go with your new undertaking:
"Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. Security does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than exposure."
and
Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.
by Helen Keller
Take care and best wishes.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
2 Dec 08
That is great that your life is coming together. I hope things work out for you and your boyfriend.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
1 Dec 08
I'm so satisfied that atlast you have overcome your probmlem with your married collegue.I wish you happy reunion with your boyfriend.Actually I could not take easy
your relationship with that guy.If you decided to marry that married man it would be treachery to your boyfriend.God saved you.My advice to you please control your mind.You are a bit fickle minded.Thanks D
@AlucardChristian (152)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
Good to hear, good to hear.
It's really good that you two have understood each others feelings and came to a better result.
Good luck with you guys.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
1 Dec 08
THat's good for u ^_^ The most important thing in a relationship is honesty and trust ^_^ ONce a relationship has got that basic, nothing can break it up ^_^ It's good that your bf is understanding, and also yourself ^_^ U know how to sacrifice and do your part in maintaining or even bringing this relationship to a further lebvel ^_^ I really admire u for that ^_^
Hopefully the love between u and your bf will be able to last and be loving each other always ^_^
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
I am happy for you and for your boyfriend. I am hoping that you will have a long and lasting relationship with him.I can see that this is one advantage of mylot. This site is not just for earning matters but more on that. I made so many friends here and aside from that I am able to express myself more by responding on discussions and posting discussions as well. It also helps people who are worried and have problems, just like what happened to you and mine also. Happy mylottin!
