girlfriend doesnt wana talk to me
By anujs007
@anujs007 (98)
India
December 1, 2008 1:29am CST
hi friends,
heres what happened...had been in a long time relationship with this girl and we became quite close day by day.Then some time back had a argument..she saying tht she feels,it wont work out...we being far and with the feelings growing more and more for each other.
Then she stopped talking to me...i tried to contact her and wrote her as well,but the only reply i got was she saying "you are a sweetheart"...Now,i dont know what to do,nothing seems good without her,nothing seems to make me happy...I feel,she still loves me,but afriad due to various reasons,distance being one of them...
I know its hard coz of the long distance..but even harder without her.
I dont know what to do...any suggestions?
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4 responses
@arunmails (3011)
• India
2 Dec 08
This normally happens in every love story..... so, better leave as it is..... don't make any decision to over come it.... it will end up in a serious fight.....
@vivianzhouhui (23)
• China
1 Dec 08
So sorry about my previous post.That was for someone else actually.
I am really sorry about what is happening to you..But I hope you understand..you may have to forget about her now...I did the samething to my long term boyfriend for a 2 months.Ignored his messages and phone calls..talk to him very rarely..cos I was with another guy at that time.I just didnt think about him at all.Then I brope up with him after that...
try not to contact her for 2 or 3 days and see how she reacts.If you have tried so many times and she wouldnt say anything.then she wouldnt.If she finds that you stopped talking to her for no reason,she may be curious to know why and wonders if you still care about her.People want what they cant have.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
1 Dec 08
I can understand your feelings. i guess she is keeping you on toes. she must be clear about what she wants. otherwise it will tough for you to take decision. or may be she is taking her time to think what is going to happen. better ask her what she wants.
@vivianzhouhui (23)
• China
1 Dec 08
I am 24 and I am single now.Had 5 bfs before.Just broke up with the last one in October.I think I will have 1/2 relationships before i get married.Gosh I hate dating!Hate being single!
