what's the meaning of life if you find out that your wife is cheating on you...

First of all I will not chose a wife of that type? You can ask me what if your wife cheats after marriage.. As far as I am as concerned, a person can be analyzed and studied in seconds to determine the best approach. Therefore, I will find ways to change her. Also I believe if we were true to others, the others will show the same faith on you. But, in some cases its exceptional, But in that case, you should treat peoples like them pshychologicaly.

Hmmm, did he have reason to believe these children did not belong to him. Is that why he had the test? Sometimes, test results are wrong. If he believes the children belong to him request another test. If he had reasonable doubt to begin with, help him get on with his life. He'll probably be depressed for awhile and will need his friends and family to lean on. All you can do is be there for him and support him. Good luck to you and him.

I would hate to think something of this nature would shape the view of ones meaning of thier life. It is unfortunate that it happened this way- and I'm sure it hurts like hell. I have been through a cheating realationship and know the hurt first hand. I couldn't imagine learning that my kids do not belone to me though. I would hope your friend takes this situation and turns it into a positive for himself and the children involved. I mean where is the real father(s)? Would they be willing to be a father to these children?