do you have any rings?
By Huluwooo
@HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122)
China
7 responses
@ayu_puteri (261)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 08
to me its nothing different when you married or not..why? when i was young, i like to wear a ring..now after married i think its hard to wear a ring bcoz i must do a housework and a ring will dirty..so im just wear a silver ring, not from my hubby..a plain ring..
@HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122)
• China
2 Dec 08
hey!ayu_puteri,
i haven't married.
as far as i know,when your ring is dirty,you can clean it using tooth paste.it is very effective,because i ofen do it.
just try,maybe you will find other discovers.
thank you.
keep in touch!
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
3 Dec 08
Hello, HUANGSHAMANMAN1314.
I do not have any rings. I would really like to wear a ring or something, but I am too lazy to buy and I always think that they do not match me. But I do find them pretty cool to have in the finger.
Now, about love rings, there are two kinds. Marriage ring, the golden one, which means you are engaged/married... And the other ring, but I forgot its name in English. It is a silver ring, which means you are in a established relationship with somebody. Usually between valentines. You should put it in your right hand, third finger. Second, if you are counting from the right to the left.
Respectfully,
Munhozmib.
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
9 Dec 08
Hello!
Third finger thing is just tradition, there is really no reason behind it at all. Though there is this story. Do the following steps:
1. Open your hands.
2. Make one palm of the face the other, without touching.
3. Put your second finger down, meaning your thumb will be up, your first finger will be up, your second finger will be down, your third finger will be up and your fourth finger will be up. All up, except the second finger of each hand, who will be down, touching the palm of your hand (or not really touching, if you cannot make it).
4. Now, get one hand closer to the other, palms facing. This means your thumbs will touch your thumbs, your first fingertip will touch your first finger tip, your second finger, which will be down, will be touching the other, and so on.
5. Now that all of your fingers are touching each other, try to move the thumb away from each other without moving the other fingers. That's easy.
6. Try to move your first finger from the other without moving the other fingers. Easy.
7. The second finger is down, so you cannot move it.
8. Try to move the third finger of yours. Guess what? You can't.
9. Try to move the fourth finger. You can.
So, only your third finger cannot move. I heard once that this is why the ring should go in there. It is like if the finger means that they are not letting anything get apart. Your relationship is strong and will last if you put the ring in that. I don't believe in it, but that's just one mail that was sent a while ago.
@HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122)
• China
4 Dec 08
hey!buddy!
really thank u for ur detail response.but i wonder why i must wear it in my third finger?what if it is not big enough for that finger?
why do u think rings dont match u?since u love them, why not buy one in ur free time? maybe u will find one fit u ,good luck! your friend,huangshamanman1314.
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
Hi there!
I only have one ring right now and it is our wedding ring. It is worn in my left hand's ring finger. That's where we were told to wear it on our wedding.
I also received a forwarded text message that the significance of that particular finger is that it has a nerve connected directly to the heart but I am not really sure if there's any truth to that since forwarded text messages are not that reliable.
@HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122)
• China
2 Dec 08
Hi nanayangel!thank you for ur response. i am told that a blood vessel in my third finger led directly to my heart,but i dont believe it.i think whichever finger i wear the ring is the symbol of our love.
best wishes! thank you!
@HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122)
• China
5 Dec 08
yeah,thank u for ur reply,dear friend,it is my heart that is relatively important.
best wishes to u and ur bf!
@HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122)
• China
2 Dec 08
yes,thank you.it is not the rule for wearing that u should obey,and it is just a matter of love.believe myself and believe my love.
@o_utsider (371)
• China
2 Dec 08
In my opinion,If you are only a lover,but don't want to be married,you can wear the ring on the middle finger, it means that you're falling in love now.
maybe it can help you ~!!!
@HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122)
• China
2 Dec 08
thank u for ur advice!but the two rings are neither big enough to wear in my middle finger.i think.
@o_utsider (371)
• China
4 Dec 08
Buy the other two,that two wear when you are married on the ring finger.
@ms_sumbody (29)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 08
to me ring is a symbol of love..for the malay culture, a man gives one ring for the proposal n another one ring for the marriage..one on the left hand's finger n the other one on the right hand's finger..thats all i know..lol
