Should I say sorry ?

Malaysia
December 3, 2008 8:51am CST
I have had my first big fight with my boy friend hours ago and it is all a big mess. Now I'm wondering as to how to say sorry to him. I love him a lot and wouldn't want to lose him for a lame reason like a fight.Apologizing to him is all about making him feel special. How do you think?
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6 responses
@Crizhant (187)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
Hello. I suggest that you should talk it over, if you think you made the mistake then it's just right if you apologize but if you think he made the mistake then you should talk to him and further know why did it. Hope this could help. :)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 08
thank you
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
I think that no matter how hard it seems, you should apologize to him for the things you probably said that hurted him or made him angry. Its not about who is right or who is wrong, when you are willing to humble yourself and make peace with your boyfriend, its just like what you said, you are showing him that you love him and that you want things to work out between the two of you that is why you are not going to allow a petty fight to tear you apart.
• Malaysia
4 Dec 08
thanks for your concern
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
if you think that it was your fault, better to apologize to him. Thats the sign of humbling down and that is good..So go ahead if you think thats the right thing to do.
• Malaysia
3 Dec 08
thank you jhenn22
@sindhu88 (306)
• India
3 Dec 08
hii friend u are going in a correct way and thinking right now. U better go to him and say that sory for wat happened may be urs or his wrong....but while talking dont raise older fights it will become a big problem again so go ahead friend .And all the best. :)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 08
thanks, my problem solved..
@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
3 Dec 08
If it was your fault, then there's no reason why you shouldnt say sorry. Swallow the pride if you really love the person. Good luck.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
3 Dec 08
I think that you're thinking right now and that one of you will have to realize your mistake so somebody's got to do it. It will make him feel special and fights are a lame thing to be upset about. I know that nobody can turn down a sincere apology so good luck if you go through with it and good luck if you don't.
• Malaysia
3 Dec 08
thanks