long distance relationships

katemeow, There's no sure-fire way to "make sure" a relationship lasts, it really depends on the people IN the relationship. Currently, I am in a long-distance relationship. Ours is pretty easy because he's deployed and I'm a stay-at-home mother/full-time online college student. He's not going to meet anyone and I'm not going to meet anyone, but more than that, we both know that we've met the right person. I'm 35, he's 34. He's not the father of my daughter either, so that's not a factor. Actually, I do have one other guy here locally that's trying to win me over, but that's not going to happen because I've found the right one. This other guy is going to keep trying but even if I weren't in a relationship, he wouldn't have a chance. I think guys like that.....having a challenge or something. It's pretty pathetic, but oh well. Anyway, my guy and I keep in touch through e-mail and though we both have webcams, we haven't been able to use them yet. I did use mine to send him a quick movie but that's about it so far. Before he left, we used to talk on the phone a lot. Happy MyLotting!

if we base in rating I would rather rate it 5, coz youre not sure if it will succed temptation is always right there........ the guy usually looks another even if you are around how much more if your not there always.

not that i am against them or anything of that sort, but i believe taht they have a thing about nto lasting. i mean there can be no trust if you can't see them. how can there be true love if you dont know the love? but besides that point to keep one coming communication is the key! knowing how to talk to that person, knowing how tha tpersonf eels, knowing how that person is going to react to soemthing helps also. i mean it is so much easier for someone long distance to break up with someone than in real life.

realize that you ARE a couple so don't cheat send packages... when together make the best of your time get on the same phone plan and talk a lot realize that ppl are busy and if you cant talk alto for a day or so its okay its just busy schedules make videos and pics for e/o gl!

It's actually hard.Hoever love does everything.

Long distance is difficult to hold together, but we insist on contact with E-mail and telephone.

i have two pairs friends, 1,one in Germany , the other in austria,but two weeks go the men once to austrie,they get each other very good. 2,noch a pair,together at all times,but quarrel all the way