Do you bothered or receive bad treatment from your ex recent GF/BF

ya i got some bad treatment from my ex gf..once i called her to discuss about some mater expect about my love...when i talked in phone she behaved normally but aftre some days i came to know that she discussed thios mater with some of my classmates and one of my classmate asked me about this i wondered how cruel she is...just she wann be some popular girl in our class that what she want but she dont know what she would get with this type of populatituy

In my opinion, mabe they feel threatened by you and probably the ex talk about you so much (maybe because he still loves you) that they feel if they don't watch out he may try to get back with you. So, to me, what they are doing is making you aware of their presence so that it will irrate you and if you or the ex had any desire to mend things, it won't happen. Ignore them...and ignore him too!

there was my secone ex who used to hit me a lot, tortures relationship it was, everytime i used to do something wrong or say something wrong he used to whack me.... at first i never used to say anything but then after a while i couldnt take his beatings and so decided to call the relationship off and then there was another guy in my life that i wanted to break up with...was good guy but i realised i wasnt really in love with him and told him so and he got all fired up about it and then started making my life hell as he thought that i had him in a relationship so long to just use him ..... but that wasnt the case.... but yes i was tortured twice in my life and after that i kind of never have been able to trust any man totally....

miamhae, Some people are just conservative and narrow minded to the literal sense and there is just no way to stop them. I suppose these individuals are basically insecure and lack the wisdom and the knowledge of accordance. I suppose the old ancient Chinese proverb: “Clear conscience never fears midnight knocking.” So as long as you are conscientious is your ways and thoughts; there will never be anyone who can say otherwise. Take care and have a nice day.

I am really really bother with my ex who's not been paying much attention to me. I mean in a sense that she ignores me when she's the one at fault. I mean for God's sake, she slept with someone at the same time telling me she to hang on. I was trying to be friendly with her but i don't know with her.

Just ignore them. The problem is not yours but your ex. He probably makes them feel you are something to worry about. He should do what he needs to gain closure and get over his feelings for you before he goes on the rebound and plays games with other women. Let him deal with the heat on his own. Those girls should have been smart enough to leave him when they notice that he isn't completely healed yet.