how do you feel when you don't get...
By harivanam
@harivanam (122)
December 5, 2008 7:48am CST
Hai dear friends, Well i have faced and still facing a different feeling in my lot.Actually the thing is i do respond for the discussions started from my friends in mylot and i think there is nothing wrong in expectinting the same thing from them.But, i did not get the responce for my discussions atleast from my friends.Did you faced any time like this how do you feel for this.. I feel very irritating some times and sad and dull.. So what about you..
4 responses
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
5 Dec 08
I'm quite active as a friend,I do not respond to a discussion only when I have nothing to say about it, when I feel incompetent to answer.For example if it's about chemistry, cars.It would be funny if I respond being so incompetent.You know that Mylot cares about quality of discussions.Happy Mylotting.
@harivanam (122)
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6 Dec 08
Well my dear there is nothing you can comment about or you don't know what to comment then it is ok no body can help for that.There are few in my list that they are always busy in starting new discussions.They start around 10-15 new discussions every day..
@harivanam (122)
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7 Dec 08
Well dear you are 100% correct in my view.They are being selfish which is not good for a team,But its unfortunate that those people are getting the maximum responses for their discussions.Some times i think that is there any way that i can make them to know about this or how can i bring this situation to their notice..Happy lotting...
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
6 Dec 08
So, if they start 10-15 own discussions without responding their friend discussion, it means that their purpose in here is to earn as quick as possible and as much as possible.Some people add you as a friend just to have more responses(I have already noticed that).And they never care what you ask and what you do.So, they can't work in team because they are too selfish.
@ddj133 (39)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 08
Yeah....Sometimes people just ignore who you are and sometimes they just don't noticed it...I think myLot could improve their system like showing friends' activities in a side bar in ur profile or something. Then people might response to friend's discussion more effectively and actively.
@harivanam (122)
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7 Dec 08
Hi dear, I think you are right upto some extent.The my lot also must make it look more clear and attractive slide or column to look the discussions started by friends.This particular change may bring some improvement in the situation.. Thanx for the response.. Happy Lotting..
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
5 Dec 08
Hi harivanam. I understand you because I feel the same many times. I do respond for discussions started from my friends and many times they don't do the same for me. What I do is after a while who never give a response to my discussions I do the same with them. I have many friends that never give me a reply so I do the same with them. Is it wrong? I don't think so. But I have wonderful friends too that always are giving me replies not only in my started discussions but in my responses too. So it makes a balance. 
Have a nice day.
Have a nice day.@harivanam (122)
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6 Dec 08
Hi dear, Well as you said if we also do not respond to our friends discussions i think it is a foolish thing because by responding to the discussions also we can earn i hope so in this way we loose some bucks... all we need to do is i think just wait for their response or we can send a private message about the same .. What do you think..
@khan2abdul (416)
• India
5 Dec 08
It's very embraced when u don't get any response I have joined yesterday and i don't have many friends but I know that if u post a good disussion than u can get a good response from everyone.
@harivanam (122)
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6 Dec 08
Hi friend, Welcome to Mylot. Well as you said that our discussions must be of good quality.I surely agree with you upto certain extent and what i feel is a new buddy may not be as good as the old fellow in starting the new discussions..But, he must be encouraged atleast from his friends.. What do you say..
