can u belive the people with whoom u chat
By murali603
@murali603 (114)
India
December 5, 2008 12:27pm CST
actually when we are chatting with the other people we dont knwo about him/her but we have to belive the words spoken by them.. they tell lies according to situation becoz we cant verify wheather its a lie or true that is the reason to dont belive the people who meet u on chat they will cheat you ...be aware off all those people dont tell any passwords or any histtory of you to them they can make use of that history rold by u they may have some advantage by doing all these so plz be sure to tell ur matter to them.
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10 responses
@cooldude90 (1)
• India
6 Dec 08
hmmmm....i guess that depends on u!!!but i personally feel we have to talk to ppl who we atlest a lil...like maybe ur frens fren!!!but newayzz its not all alwayz that ppl lie and cheat when u chat wid dem.....just take for example urself u kno u can be trusted so try to find the same kinda ppl....or atleast don reveal ur personal information and dont never ever ever ACCEPT FILES from strangers as they let the stranger kno ur ip adress and make u really vulnerable to them!!!!so try and avoid strangers and if it has to be done then BE SAFE DON REVEAL PERSONAL INFO!!!!ENJOY!!!
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
6 Dec 08
Well, you are right that people tell lie when chatting online and we have no way of knowing if they should be trusted or not. But my point is, what difference does it make? We are chatting only for fun and not for serious business. So, don't worry and simply have fun.
@selina0625 (1379)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
My advise...do not believe everything your chatmate is telling you specially if you meet them only thru chatrooms.You never know what the background that person has so be very very careful.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
At Yuwie, the other site we have many friends...we do chat yes entrusted our emails but so far nothing wrong happened...I trust them and they trust me, we trust each other's friendship and we're close friends, I don't know but I found them nice and real, we'd been friends for a year. I am wondering why even my children are telling me that people at the internet are not real, or maybe am just lucky to have friends that are trustworthy...
@suresh635 (77)
• India
6 Dec 08
no, i cant believe all people.but after chatting so many days and then meeting him and making friendship we may believe him.some people are cheating.so beware of cheaters.u dont cheat anybody.
@annaathegr8 (2)
• India
6 Dec 08
i tnink ur point of view is absolutely correct..there is an age in which we tend to melt away wid emotions nd our new experiences but its very important to keep control on ourselves so that we arent carried away by our feelings..as an experience chating wid unknown person seems to be very exiting nd thrilling but u never know the intentions and the behaviour of the person.there are 2 pppl in this world foolish and intelligent..intelling guys learn frm mistakes ogf oters..we hav often heard about cases like that..so beware vot u do nd restrict yourself to just friends..
@shonali (1286)
• India
5 Dec 08
well i dont knwo what to say about this... but i dont hink you should totally and blindly trust the person with whom you are chatting though some of them can actually be genuine and some can be major frauds...well upto the point of chatting its ok but when you start either falling for the guy or girl and start falling in love and stuff and want to meet up with them ..thats when it becomes a danger and i think you shouldnt fall for these traps.... its always a big guess work that you have to do while chatting but if you keep it till chatting and nothing further then its ok
@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
6 Dec 08
Gosh! I don't know who you've been chatting to, but they must be horrible people!
I chat quiet a bit and have some awesome friends online.
People online are no different than the people that ya meet in every day life, there will always be some bad ones, but there are also some fabulous ones.
Don't stereotype ALL online people by a handful of bad ones that you unfortunately met.. Anyone is capable of lying to you.. no matter where or how you meet them.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Dec 08
I like chatting with other people, but I think it's true that you have to be a little careful. It is possible to find some very good friends on the internet, but some people aren't who they pretend to be. It is very easy to lie in chatroom, because you are anonymous and you can hide behind the computer. I am sure that some people take advantage of this, but there are also a lot of people who are honest and friendly. In the beginning I am very careful not to reveal any personal information about myself and I don't tell people where I live etc. I have met some of the people I have chatted with and some of them have become close friends, but it takes some time to get to know eachother.
@theembittered (1025)
• United States
5 Dec 08
Thanks for the advice, I have several friends online and the truth can say that trust in them but it is always good to save a bit of distance and be careful, have a nice day and hope you will have a very good week ;) see you soon and bye bye :)