You will feel happier when you make others happy
By yokhon48
@yokhon48 (91)
Malaysia
December 5, 2008 7:07pm CST
When you are unhappy, can you make others happy? Probably not so, you need others to make you happy. Why not find means to we make ourselves happy first, then transmit our happiness to others, in that way, I feel, you will become more happier because you are giving away happiness. Happiness is joy, laughter, sharing and caring, giving in kinds or thoughts to others, in return we receive happiness within us, that is why I say, we can become happier.
3 people like this
3 responses
@karubod (603)
• India
6 Dec 08
yes..i agree with you ...first in order to make others happy you have to be happy....then the world looks brighter...people around us also can share the happiness with us...its good to be with lots of friends and share some jokes with them...it is a key to be happy & also make others happy..happy my lotting...
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
6 Dec 08
I think when you make someone else happy it can also come back at you, I thinki happiness is very infectious, it is a very powerful emotion so when one is feeling down go out and spread some happiness...
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
You are absolutely right in what you said. I agree with you that making others happy, make yourself happy also. But for a person to do that, he must first have a light feeling within himself. He can transmit only his happiness if he himself is happy.I believe that for a person to be truly happy, he must acquired certain qualities like humility, generosity, kindness,helpfulness and many other good characteristics also.He must be positive in life no matter how hard or problematic it is sometimes.He must know how to enjoy every beautiful moments that come in his life.He must not take for granted every opportunities.In times of failures, he must not let the emotions of sadness overcome him. Instead of thinking of failures, he must overcome it by moving on. It is only through forgetting and accepting what happened can make a person move on.Everybody commits mistakes and failures once in a while, but that is not a reason to be down. The show must go on. God has given us the power to choose. And happiness can be attain if we choose it always in our life.
@yokhon48 (91)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 08
The philosophy of one making others happy, becoming happier oneself is often well said. It really needs a very matured and cultivated person, like what you said people with humility, generosity, lovingkindness, helpful, etc. a good character who is non-calculative in nature. Always positive, motivative, with wisdom to help people in distress. It can be a very small thing, and if this makes one happy, the happiness come back to you, and this adds merit to your life.
