Life has bad news sometimes
By wifeofharvey
@wifeofharvey (1156)
United States
December 5, 2008 8:00pm CST
And today has been one of them. We received a phone call informing us of my brother in laws health condition. He is at end stage of cancer, it has spread through his whole body and the doctor said he MIGHT have up to 3 months to live but not very likely. We are so sad, but we are also are angry. Brother has been treated for several year for a heart condition and for rhematoid arthritis. For the last couple of years he has been treated numerous times for pneumonia!! How could the doctors miss this?? What do we do with this anger----we can't share it with brother or his wife and grown kids, so what do we do??
We will be leaving in a couple of days to go the 1800 miles to spend some time with Brother----will you all please pray for a good visit. For peace and love to be encompass us all. Thanks in advance.
1 response
@qianlizhifeng (468)
• China
6 Dec 08
Everyone of us will get sad and angry when hearing such news .The heaviest missing in life may be to lose a close relative.Now as he is so ill and has not much time in the world ,in my opnion ,you should spend some time as you mentioned ,with him,trying to make him happy .What's more ,he must have something wo worry about as he has a family,so it is necessary to do something to eliminate his worries.Maybe it is very hard to make a dying person happy,but it is the last time .
