How to make your girl friend or wife happy?
By ck3259
@ck3259 (248)
Malaysia
December 6, 2008 4:39am CST
My girl friend and i always have conflict. I'm try many way to make her happy. I just want to know is there any other way to make girls happy. Girl happy when receiving a present or cook a meal for her. Giving her suprise. I have no idea what kind of suprise i should do to make her happy. I don't know how to make a joke. I really no idea. Can someone give me some suggestion?
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3 responses
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
hi there...im a girl...why whats happens to your gf? maybe you have something done wrong thats why she agry with you because we girls wont upset if guys did nothing done wrong, hhhhmmmm....be sweet to her give her bundles of flowers im sure she will be nice to you after...unless your girl doesnt love you anymore....sorry to tell but sometimes girls acts like that, these will serves us as our excuses...just try to do something sweet...
@Pascha (65)
• United States
6 Dec 08
Yeah right! *laughs* I hate to tell ya this but yes, us girls DO get upset even when our guys did not one single thing wrong. Guys do it too. :)
We don't need to have an excuse for our emotions. They are what they are. Sometimes there is no rhyme or reason to it at all. We all have our bad days and sometimes, it truly is nobody's fault. :)
@Pascha (65)
• United States
6 Dec 08
Hi CK. :)
It sounds to me like you need to be asking HER what she would like. If there is conflict, then there is reason for that conflict. Two people can be totally and madly in love with each other, and just not be good for each other. And two people can be totally and madly in love with each other, but not know how to properly SHOW each other that.
So first, find out what it is that she needs from you to feel love and affection. Maybe she's the kind of girl that needs you to leave her notes for her to find, or messages on her answering machine, or flowers on her pillow. Or maybe she's the kind of girl that needs you to be more cuddly and attentive. Or maybe she's the kind of girl that needs you to just back off a bit and give her some space. You won't know unless you ask.
Don't ever be ashamed to ask the female partner in your life, or prospective partner, what it is that they need to feel loved, needed, and wanted. Good communication is ALWAYS where it starts at. If you can't meet her needs, and you know it, then it's best to walk away. if you think you CAN meet her needs, then you need to tell her what YOU need. Then she can decide if she can do those things or not.
Relationships are like negotiations. Both parties come to the table with their own expectations. Both parties have to give a little in order to reach success. But if neither party says what their expectations are, there is no opportunity for negotiation and no foundation for the relationship.
Good luck, CK!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
6 Dec 08
Happiness comes from the heart.. It need not be a gift or any present.. To them, all they really want is sincerity and love from u ^_^ A tight hugs for her, and even a simple true, i love u, from u to her, can make her smile for the whole day.. It proves that u are thinking of her, and she wont feel like u have taken her for granted in life ^_^
