Give me a reason Why you are still single.

single woman - I'm single but I'm happy
@ana3173 (420)
Philippines
December 6, 2008 6:28am CST
When you are in a relationship there are things you are obliged to do. but what are the reasons you are still single. The first obvious reason why being single totally rocks ,is Money, Money will always be a reason for all, for instance, In your anniversaries are almost required gift giving events, especially if your significant other is a bit on materialistic side, Going out on dates also means you always have to spend. dinner dates always mean an expense. and it get worse when married, especially to a man. because man expected to provide all the things his family need, like basic necessities, food, clothing, shelter. while if you're still you will sit back, relax and enjoy. And the other reason why they are still single is FREEDOM, Because if you are married there are a lot of restrictions. to others it is almost like a prison, you can't go out because you have an obligations to your family, you cant go out without consulting your partner first. you can't even go home late without telling or notifying. if you compare it to a single man or woman you will see a difference. And another reason for these is IN-LAWS, you can have a good husband or wife, you both may have a perfect job and respectful and loving children but the in-laws will be there to put a blemish on that shine of perfection in your relationship. I'm not saying this that ALL in laws are bad but for most of the married people, they are. because most often than not they try to meddle in the relationship. they always have to say on everything. from the color of the dress, to the diapers etc.. etc.. do you think the single person have this problem? of course Not at all. And if you're single you can have your own choice of men and women. and if you don't have someone in your life, you wont ever get the risk of having a broken heart, but falling in love is one of the wonderful feeling in the world. and if you're unattached to anybody, you have no heartaches
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@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
I just broke up with my girlfriend this year and i don't see anyone worthy to be my girlfriend or me being worthy for them. Yup, money tops the reason why i'm single. O don't have it so ladies come and go. So how am u supposed to keep myself unsingle? O think i should blame the economy hehe. Another thing why i remain single is because i don't have someone whom i think is wife-material. I mean i had lots of girlfriends and i can't afford to waste another chapter in my life gone to waste.
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@ana3173 (420)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
I agree, why wasting your time with someone who's not worthy, love can't be rushed, when it comes to love it can't be found that easily and formed in just one night. love takes time , each person slowly revealing who they really are over the course of the months and years. well think of this way, its better to spend years getting to know someone and make the right choice, than marrying a woman who is the wrong choice. but make sure that you are financially stable. and if you remain single you're more likely to achieve great things.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
That's exactly what i'm doing. I don't want to create mistakes after mistakes so i better use my head and see if there'll be no regrets.
@tumenoa (58)
• Uganda
6 Dec 08
Well i find women, one of the most difficult creations of God that are really hard to understand, what they want and when, is quite a mystery. Is that a reason to be single? Well ontop of that i have no time to spare for a girlfriend coz am too much engrossed in books right now.
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@ana3173 (420)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
i totally disagree with you man that women are the most difficult creations of God, if not for women you're not here in this world, there are woman thats really hard to understand and there some men also. if you dont have time with girls just continue your plans in life, love can wait.