my cousin....

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my cousin and her sister had this fight over something. this time, it is really serious. my cousin is gay. it's not that her sis can't accept him for who he is. it's just that, the sister is waiting for him to open up and talk about things that he has been through. when he got back Dubai, it was then that her sis realized that he has changed. i know he had several relationships with guys he considers he loved but i don't agree with his behavior now. i received a text message from him last friday, asking if he can sleep in our house. i said YES. because i really thought, it was only an overnight sleep. after three days, i realized that he is planning to extend his stay without informing me. my husband is really somewhat dubious that he may have something really big to make her sister mad. making it to the point of her sister hating him. i was in good faith when i agreed of him staying in house. what despised me, is that he doesn't help in the daily house hold chores. he only wakes up whenever he feels to do so. it was like feeding a pig, who only eat and sleep. plus, my husband is the only one working. i have experienced being out of budget last week. my one week grocery was already out, when i still have three days before my next grocery schedule. i decided to talk to him, but he might have felt that my attitude towards him really changed over the week, he avoided me. until yesterday, i decided to text him, saying that i can no longer accommodate him and that he must find a new place to stay ASAP. he said that he will be leaving this wednesday. im keeping my fingers crossed that he would. i don't know how to explain to my husband anymore. it was like, i had my inlaws out, then now i have my own cousin to feed for free. it was really disappointing and disgusting.