I am always annoyed from my friend, should I avoid her?
By jlamela
@jlamela (4897)
Philippines
December 6, 2008 10:49pm CST
There's a friend of mine who is really annoying, the way she laugh, she act, and everything to the point that I don't like her anymore, but she is always insisting to get near to me and join my company, but I am not happy anymore with her company. Is it ethical to avoid her?
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6 responses
@vddclan (49)
• Philippines
7 Dec 08
A true friend understands.why wont you confront her and tell her honestly what you feel towards her?maybe, she just doesn't know she's hurting other people.coz if you avoid that person, she will soon notice.and in return she could get hurt, without her knowing the reason why your doing it.
@helper9562000 (311)
• New Zealand
7 Dec 08
Firstly I suggest that you talk to this so called friend of yours. And if are not able to sort things out thn maybe both of you need some time apart from each other, you know what they say about distance making the heart grow fonder. If nothing else works thn I suggest that you avoid your friend.
Good-Luck and happy Mylotting Helper
@mrbrownedeye (781)
• Philippines
7 Dec 08
better to tell the truth than hiding it like you still like or enjoying being with her. avoiding her does not suggest a good idea for a friend. you can make a better that could make her realized about what you have felt when she's with you.
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
7 Dec 08
I think,it is better to talk to her first before avoiding her. It will be unfair to her side if you just avoid her all of a sudden. Before doing any actions, you should think carefully first if it will result good or bad. Remember to put yourself in your friend shoes. If she will do that way to you, will it be alright to you? Or you will feel that your friend treated you unjustly? Your friend is also a human. She has feeling that might be hurt if you act without thinking carefully. And that thing can cause you some regrets especially if you'd hurt her feelings.
You consider her as your friend right? It means that if you really mean to it being her as one of your friends, you will not be afraid to tell her the truth. Tell her honestly what is wrong with her. Tell her what annoys you most.I believe that if you talk with her heart to heart, you can come to a point of understanding each other.She may not know that you are annoyed with her attitude. It can be possible that she thinks what she is doing is just alright with you. It is very much possible especially if you will not open it to her.So, I think that you set up a talk between you and her first before making any move.
@markbrauer1 (66)
• United States
7 Dec 08
Anytime somebody annoys me all the time, I tried to avoid them, so I say yes.
@LuvBr0wn13s (765)
• United States
7 Dec 08
Is she really your friend? I have a friend that annoys me, but I still love her. The irritation passes and we are able to move past it. If you guys really aren't friends then you should sever your ties with her. She would probably be hurt to know that you don't really like her or want to be around her and have just been avoiding her.