How can I choose?

I'm a guy and I know we hate being compared to "Brad" who's so sensitive and caring. I guess you could do the list of pros and cons, just let the last guy "con" you into anything again. Good luck!

[b][i]bcote, since you ex doesn't want to get back with you, why not keep seeing this other guy. You really don't know to pick between both of them. Just stay with the new guy, since you're ex does not want to get back with you. You don't need to worry about your ex anymore, go out with this new guy ana have a good time[/b].[[/i]em]happy[/em]

I know I am late getting to this discussion, but my first question is does he know that you are seeing that guy? If he does, it seems like to me he only wants you back in order for no one else to have you. If you go back to him under these circumstances, you will not be happy. After the honeymoon period, things will be the same and you will remember why you left. Do yourself a favor and remember why you left now, and save yourself some heartache.

Go for the new love. Your ex has hurt you once and he may hurt you again. Why does he not want to give you a chance in the past and suddenly wants to try things out now? That is worth pondering. Since you like the new guy, choose him.

i think just you have to take this decision . one might help you with a choice but then also the decision will have to be your. the relation thing is not easy one. if nothing helps you then just flip a coin.

uuhh..thats really tough situation. i never been in situation like this. so, in my opinion, you should ask for your ex to give room and time for you where you can have chance to know the new guy. at the same time, do get to know your ex (myb he has change). after you feel that you has already know each guy, you make your decision. your ex may create a greater pull to your decision. so, dont let your emo control you. think deeply. and you will get your answer.