Everyone please help me understand man mentally.

You are a bad girl, how can you say something like that about someone else. It seems that you have met the girl, but are you sure that he is cheating with her or they are just friends. You see some men will cheat some will not, the ones who cheat just cannot help themselves around women. I think you need to be sure that your boyfriend is cheating with this other woman, and you also need to find out the type of man you have is he one who loves beautiful women like yourself or is he the one to go with anyone. if he is definately attracted to beautiful women it is quite unlike that he will cheat with the woman you classed so low. On the other hand she might have beautiful qualities that you don't have and that is what attracts him to her. Women have to face up to reality that your beauty alone will not keep men if you are beautiful and don't have good ways then you will loose your man. Men have needs just as how women have needs and maybe you are not spending quality time with him. You need to take a look at yourself and then you have a talk with your man and find out from him what it is he likes about you and then you both can take it from there. Good luck

It's simple, he cheats and finds another girl which is opposite of my personality because he wants attention. Guys love to be the center of our attention, they also love pampering. They go for someone who is imperfect because it is when they feel they are superior.

Sounds to me that he apparently in not interested in all of the superficial things that according to you have it "going on". Maybe his attraction in the other person is not about what you can buy. Maybe its a mental connection. Its not about what you think about yourself that attracts someone else, but rather what they are looking for. And to be honest its not that hard to find someone with all of the physical characteristics that you named. The question is when all of that is stripped away, what do you have left? Trust me at some point in life you will need to be able to rely on something more than looks. Every mans dream girl is not what you have described. While some men may be attracted to what you consider a hott body, others may be attracted to heavier women. While some men may like a fashionably dressed woman, some may see that as over the top and prefer a woman in jeans and a tee shirt. The bottom line is because you like it doesn't mean that every man will love it.