Can you bear cheating ?

Oh my gosh. I actually have a discussion right now with regards to an incident wherein I found out my ex-fiance was cheating. I know it's tough, especially if it's someone you really trust and cherish. I know under the right mind cheating isn't supposed to be tolerated, but our hearts won't just give up easily. I still have that dilemma right now and I guess only time could really tell if you could tolerate it or not. As for your boyfriend. What's his reaction when you found out? Try ask him how he'd feel if he read a message or two on your phone or email regarding your ex?

Some use the word trust as a solution to such situation. Instead of thinking if your boyfriend is cheating on ya, what have made you feel insecure about him? Is he a playboy by nature? He may just be thoughtful and doesn't want you to be thinking in the wrong direction. However, this sometimes backfires. My concern is if the ex has something up his/her sleeves? It sometimes happen and it is a test of how love foundation that links between you and him. If he has a change of heart, then there is no point to broad over it.

This is one thing that I cannot stand upon. If I ever happen to face I did make sure that the person cheating me is appropriately punished. As in your matter, there can be a situation where your BF is in contact with his GF but just as a casual friend.

Just because he talks to his ex doesnt mean by any means that he is cheating..I could care less if my hubby or bf is still close to their ex's..I am wiht mine so why shouldnt they be too..So long as its just a friendship thing then its fine with me....HOWEVER what would tick me off is the lying about it..I DESPISE being lied to with an intense passion actually..So if it were me, I'd want to know WHY he lied about it....Depending on what his answer/excuse is I'd take it from there ya know...

[i]Hi janet, If I were in the situation, I will confront him and ask him what he didn't tell me the truth and I may give a second chance but he has to work hard to gain my trust again but if still he will be doing it again, I will just let him go and support him whatever will make him happy![/i]

It happened to me before, it really made me cry and even my tears was dry already it won't fall down on my cheeks, but deep inside my heart is still crying. I felt like the world is on my shoulders and it was too heavy to accept the truth that he was cheating, I once forgave him but he still did it again making me believe his lies and that's it I decided to end up the relationship. I couldn't cope or bear with it all my life.

I don''t think thats cheating. i would talk to him about it and let him know how that makes you feel. See what he does from there.

No I cannot. I am sorry that you had to suffer this experience. I would confront your partner with the evidence. If there is no honesty there cannot be a relationship. I hope that you manage to sort out your problems

At first i thought i can give my girlfriend a second chance when it was clear that she cheated and even if she admitted to it. But as we go along i realized that i just can't ignore and live normally. It's kind of bothersome knowing the one you love cheated on you and got away with it. As for your case, you should realize too the the greatest rival one can have is your partner's ex so this really must be stopped before something comes into fruition.

I think at the first offense, I would feel offended and even jealous of the other woman. However, I would put my faith in him and not question him - though I may be aware of any suspicious activities. Later after repeated offenses, I would confront him because I could never bear the thought of him cheating, because there's a silent contract to be faithful, and even more so if there was a promise out loud to be mine forever.

no excuse for ling or cheating to you're partner. The most important things in a relationship is honesty and trust. ounce you break the honesty the trust is gone. the relationship soon follows