How is friendship sometimes misunderstood?
@singh007divya (86)
India
December 8, 2008 2:59am CST
you think he/she is your best friend, and open your heart before him/her, later you repent on that work, and ask yourself........why did i trust him that much?
Or take another case we take him/her as just a good friend.........we be with him or her and he/she takes it to be love....we don't know what to do....we don't want to hurt him/her but we can't see him/her as a lover either...
Did anyone feel like this........if yes, please share, and suggest what to do in such situations
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2 responses
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
8 Dec 08
The best way to clear up a misunderstanding is to find out what the other person feels about the thing in question. I don't like to be mistaken and I always get some kind of clarification about a muddy issue. cheers!!
@singh007divya (86)
• India
8 Dec 08
Thanks for your responses!!
you r absolutely right we must talk it out early on......communication here d best policy,.........i agree
But i sometimes think that we can't stop what one feels even if we very well know what he/she felt beforehand
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
8 Dec 08
Its always better to keep some secrets to yourself, or you may get hurt.
If you have a friend, keep him such,
Never let him know too much,
For if your friend becomes your foe,
The whole wide world your secrets know.
As for the other part, it is better to be firm and tell that person firmly and kindly that it is not to be. Never keep it pending for fear of hurting him. It will only cause more hurt and break your friendship. If he knows where he stands, he will be more clear in his thinking,
@singh007divya (86)
• India
8 Dec 08
hi kety
thanks for your valuable suggestions, u r right y tell anyone all ur secrets? he/she can never be yourself, and open them up to others ......thanks again for ur contribution
