You had to choose your spouse for the next birth, would you choose the same one

hi kety .. if he is my soul mate, then definatly he was my pasr life mate n will be my next life mate, of course we all got problems...maybe i don like something about him ... n i guess he might not like somethings about me ... but we have gone tru a lot of pain to be together in this life ... and i will fight to be with him in our next life as we are definatly sole mates ... cheers

No way! My ex is not someone I would ever want to have a relationship with. If I had known her true self I would never have got involved with her! Anyway she is married to someone else now and they have had one and expect another kid so she is not available! As for your situation, I hope you can work it out. It may be that mediation/counselling would help. So many people have unrealisable expectations about marriage and families and it can be difficult to accept another person's views and reach a compromise. I hope you can do so for the sake of your children. Children need both aprents and do much better when both aprents are fully invovled in their lives. Separation is the worst option for kids and unfortuantely often means that the father is unable to play a full role in the child's upbringing, seriously affecting the children's chances in the future. Hang in there!

My spouse and I have been married for more than five years now and we have one daughter for a child. Frankly, I'm quite disappointed because eventhough how much I encourage him to find or search for a more stable job, he seems afraid to take risks and chances to engage in job search. It seems to me that he's already contented with earning less than the minimum wage of 300 pesos daily (approximately 6 dollars) from Mondays to Saturdays. Sorry if I have to vent out my frustrations here, but he doesn't seem to care if we are able to pay all our bills and monetary obligations. In fact, he doesn't hand his wage over to me. He likes to spend it in his own way. What's worse is that when nothing's left of it, he tends to get a portion of my salary which I, in turn, have to budget for house rent, bills, transportation fares, meals, and everything. If I would be literally born again or what you call 'rebirth', I guess I have to be honest and admit that I'd like to have a more responsible and understanding husband. Foremost, I'd like to have a partner in life who would be a great provider and father to our future kids. This is one of the personal issues to which I could attest that sometimes, age does really matter.

I think it would be boring to have the same spouse. There must be millions or even billions in some other galaxy which would be suitable for me. Cheers!!