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My lover and I have taken in one of my friends that I have known for about 4 years now. He has been living with us for 4 months now. Nick is 28 and my lover and I are 40 years old and have been together for over 8 years now. We I am writing to say that Nick and I have fooled around while my over was at work. We rent out rooms in our home and one of our renters found out what Nick and I was upto. He called my lover at work and told him what was going on. My first question is do you think that the renter had the right to call my lover to tell him what was going on? Would you ever call a friend at work to let him or her know what his or her partner is doing? Or would you wait until he or she got home? My lover and I don't make love as much as I would like. He keeps saying that he is getting too old, but the thing is we are the same age. About 5 days before this post my lover fooled around with Nick with me in the same room, in other words a three way. The only problem I had with it was that I really was not included. My lover states that he is upset that I allowed him to fool around with Nick. The fact is, it turned me on to watch. Would you have a three way with your lover and someone else? If you was not included would you put a stop to it or wait until it was over to say something? Now our friends are saying that we should kick out Nick. I don't feel that we should. Nick and I, nor Nick and Jay (my lover) have fooled around. Would you allow a "friend" tell you who you should and should not allow to live in you home? Do you think that Nick should have to leave?