Do U follow your Head or Heart?
By joystick7
@joystick7 (728)
India
December 8, 2008 12:20pm CST
I consider myself pretty sensible guy.. Sometimes my decisions do go wrong and then I stay to think back that I should have listened to what my heart said and not followed by head and vice versa.. but over time I do follow a simple strategy which works for me most of the times...
While handling myself I use my head and while handling others I use my heart.
What about you?
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13 responses
@23uday (2997)
• India
10 Dec 08
hi frnds,
I will follow both head and heart.Both were important to us for doing any work for
different conditions and different situation.I will do always with head and heart.
Some times it will for different situations of works.
be happy and have nice day.
@rrvillarosa (57)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
As for me, I would listen on both sides - heart and mind. I would take a look on the condition which can be near to user its either heart or mind. If I need to use my head, I should take a reason for my heart. If then, I decided to use my heart, then I should consult my brain if I made a correct decision of my heart. As for me, use and connect both heart and head.
@AmbiePam (92828)
• United States
10 Dec 08
Yeah, I'm with you there. I often find myself in a tug of war with what my mind says, and what my heart says. Whichever one I listen to, I usually second guess myself for a while. I'm trying to do better. Although most of the times I think I should listen to my head, there are times when what my heart says is the only way to go. : )
@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
To be honest, I'm a heart over head person. And that is something I am not proud of. I often commit mistakes because of decisions I made hastily without consulting my head. I used to believe that in due time, if I will be more mature enough, my head will then teach my heart to slow down a bit and let it be the boss. But now that I'm all grown up, it's still the same!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
8 Dec 08
I usually think first then feel. It's been a good idea so far. If I don't follow that I usually get myself in trouble.
@chantalgiardina (2523)
• United States
8 Dec 08
i try to listen to both and meet in the middle as most the time my heart is more emotional and relates and my head is like my inner voice. i try to meet it half way so that i know whats best fo me at that time
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
8 Dec 08
Interesting philosophy , I amy adopt it .My view is that there is no set strategy that will always garner success,you may find there are times when your strategy will work and there may be times when handling others, you may need to use your head.I think you should use a combination of both head and heart .In matters of relationship ,I would like to think that you may want to use more heart than head but then agian this is not cast in stone .In all situiations I say use your head in conjunction with your heart but make sure the decision passes form heart to head and not vice versa but then I am a practical person.
@eynjel05 (444)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
Nowadays, we should all be smart in al the decisions that we are making. It's a competitive world that awaits us in every plans that we are making. So therefore, we should be careful in making such so that we will not regret of it in the future.The very important part of us that are always in need whenever we are making decisions are our heart and head.
Sometimes,we need to use both in some decisions that we need do decide. But for me, I prefer to use my head. Knowing that our brain is located on our head,therefore it is the best part of us to be used when we are deciding of something.