why is true love so hard to find or why do people keep loving a wrong people?

That's a very good question and I think it can be quite hard to answer. However, I can give you my answer and you can make what you want from it, at least I reckon it'll make you ponder a bit more on the subject: It's because for us humans is extremely easy to confuse love with lust. There you have it. I really think it's just as easy as that, although many people disagree with me. Rich

It's like a special things for us to find a true love. True is very hard to get rather than a wrong. So people keep loving a wrong people rather than true and worth once.

Love is not that kind of emotion. It is uncontrollable. It wants to find you. That is what makes it unique and challenging. Most of the time when we look for something we never find it but when we are not looking for it it seems to stare us right in the face. That is how life works for some reason. Most people find love but not trying to get it. If you notice in most love stories, people talk about how they were going about there business when all of a sudden they happened to meet someone they thought was special. They don't actively go out looking for someone. The situation seems to happen by chance.

In my opinion, I believe that we don't need to find for the true love. When we were born, God already gave us that true love. It's not our task to look for it but we should wait instead because it will just come on the right time.We are all destined to be happy because God wants all of us to be happy it's just that theres always the rigt time for everything. Now asking if why is it some people keep on loving the wrong person?my answer would be because maybe they were just lonely and tired of being lonely so they just grab the opportunity to love someone though they know that it is wrong. Well some are always doing that and at the end, they regret what they had done. Love can make us happy. It i the feeling that no material things can ever replace but be careful so that you'll not suffer from it. Because love can hurt us sometimes it depends on us how we handle such. Happy posting!

I think richard-uther has got it right there. And the reason I say that is because I am a bit shy and it can take me a while to get to know someone .And for all the girlfriends i've had "and it's not a big list"the girlfriends i've missed the most, cried and felt so lost without .Are the girls I fell in love with after I got to know them better .And not just for the looks alone.